Re: [閒聊] 為何會有檢討受害者的風氣出現?已回收
看板WomenTalk作者YeePapa (Yee~~~~~~~~~)時間8年前 (2016/05/31 01:29)推噓198(247推 49噓 1019→)留言1315則, 135人參與討論串2/46 (看更多)
先問一個問題好了
為什麼不能檢討被害人?
是怕受到二次傷害呢? 還是 怕模糊焦點使加害人減輕責任呢?
這兩個原因的確是讓檢討被害人這件事被認為是錯誤的
但是今天我們做的事叫作檢討而不是苛責
一件事會發生 原因有數百數千種
舉個例子
一個人酒駕撞上了另一台車導致裡頭沒綁安全帶的人死亡
原因可能有什麼
1,不該酒駕,酒駕的人要負責
2,旁邊的人沒有勸酒駕的人,所以也要負責
3,警察沒有盤查到酒駕的人,該負責
4,被撞到的車沒有注意來車,該負責
5,沒有繫安全帶,該負責
6,安全氣囊沒有保護住死者,車廠該負責
甚至可以寫個幾百項都沒問題
這叫作檢討一件事情
如果你只看到第一項
說酒駕就是渣等情緒性字眼
其他的都不去檢討
那麼那些沒有被關注到的地方就沒辦法改善
有時候我也知道人有同理心
對於被害人的不幸感到難過
但是檢討一件事情的發生 被害人的檢討絕對是裡面重要的一環
……………………補充
我以為我的用字已經算中立了
結果好像不是這樣
第一,我沒有說謾罵等於檢討,謾罵就是謾罵,你把檢討當作是謾罵或是酸言酸語那麼檢討當然是錯的
第二,我根本沒有提到有關性侵的事,也沒有拿酒駕和性侵作類比
第三,檢討被害人不是為了減輕加害人的罪,純粹只是針對事件發生的過程的前因後果作分析討論
第四,檢討被害人有層級上的差別,會有非常無辜到根本是被害人白目的差別,但是非常無辜的人也可能有特定跡象是使他成為被害人的原因
第五,檢討之後只是陳述檢討的結果,各個原因要不要改善是另一回事,並沒有要求做什麼改變
第六,很多事情是有中間值的,當沒辦法釜底抽薪時,需要的是權宜之計
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