Re: [閒聊] 基於傳統分配遺產給男性較多到底錯在哪?
我終於看懂你想表達什麼了
其實你才是父權最大的受害者
讓我總結一下你的看法:
1. 你不想傳宗接代,但爸爸叫你傳,能怎麼辦?只能做啊
你不想祭拜,但大家都是兒子拜,怎麼辦?只好做啊
任何傳統給男性的責任都可以這樣照樣照句
2. 既然我有了這麼多責任,我為什麼不能拿財產?
我自己覺得,如果你真的拿得心安理得就不會上來發文了
我猜一定有人(可能是親姐妹)質疑說
憑什麼你拿財產,這是性別歧視
或者說,你自己內心深處也想要跟姐妹公平分配
但又覺得,明明都是你在擔責任,為什麼你不能拿全部
說真的你想拿就拿,不必上來尋找拿的正當性
讓我在這裡告訴你
這是你的人生,你不能為了長輩就賣了自己一輩子
自己的人生照著別人的意思活,有意思嗎?
說到底,你就是個父權受害者,但因為受害了,所以你要求你該有的東西
就好像一個女生結婚,公婆要求她要生兒子負責做家事侍奉公婆
然後女生問,我都做了這些,憑什麼房子不登記在我名下
依我看來,你家長輩既然這麼傳統,那麼同樣對媳婦的標準會壓在你老婆身上
依你現在就頂不住的狀況,麻煩趕快去婚姻版看看你的婚姻會受到多少影響
唯一的解決方案,就是反抗啊,隨便你要明著反暗著反
祭拜?父母在世時做做樣子,等父母百年後
把牌位都移到廟裡去,清明節一年拜一次就好
我家就是阿嬤過世後把家裡神祖牌位移走,這樣就不用初一十五的拜
結婚生小孩?
你就躲、敷衍、打迷糊仗、發飆、一哭二鬧三上吊
有什麼招試什麼招,總之照你自己的想法做
上有政策,下有對策沒聽過嗎?
我外婆也很傳統啊,父母多少也有點傳統觀念留下來
女生不能這樣,女生不能那樣,女生就該有女生的樣子
我就明面上敷衍,火了就不理,我爽怎樣就怎樣
要是罵我就頂回去,要冷戰想冷戰多久都奉陪
你不替自己爭取,誰會替你爭取?
就算你不爭取好了,你真的覺得台灣還有女生願意遵從這套體制嗎?
如果你不是超淦爆有錢,怎麼說服人走傳統那套
然後就會轉變成天天跟老婆吵小孩、逢年過節吵回家
你只要沒辦法提供傳統媳婦該得的財務上的資源
你需要老婆工作需要老婆的薪水
那你的老婆永遠不可能走傳統媳婦那套
好一點就是吵一輩子
壞一點就是吵一吵離婚
自己的未來自己爭取好嗎
父權下的男生跟女生一樣可憐
並不是說你可憐女生就不可憐
也不是說女生可憐受到壓迫的男生就不可憐
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他沒辦法應付父母我該怎麼幫?請你教教我
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