[求助] 新手全職媽媽如何調適心情?
我是第一胎,寶寶現在1M20D大,生產後住月子中心及返家後請了一陣子月嫂幫忙,所以
實際我獨立一個人照顧寶寶才第五天。
生產前老公說讓寶寶跟我們一起睡主臥(但寶寶睡嬰兒床),剛回家後寶寶跟月嫂睡在小
孩房。
可能是老公感受到若同房這樣他睡眠品質會變差,加上他睡覺不能有一點光線,這樣我無
法看到寶寶,月嫂離開後我們決定分房讓我跟寶寶睡,他睡主臥。
但這幾天下來,我發現我心情越來越差,除了自己照顧寶寶的壓力,老公更是讓我火大,
他回家後會幫忙一些家務及寶寶洗澡,但基本上滑手機跟看電視還是佔掉他大部分的時間
,半夜寶寶哭鬧(有一兩天甚至整晚不睡)他都充耳不聞,這讓我覺得心理不平衡,更別
提月子中他還邀請朋友到家裡打牌,又跟朋友開趴,我都沒多說一句,但我心裡覺得為什
麼我的生活完全改變了,但你卻可以一樣自由?
我覺得這樣下去我積在心裡的怨念只會越來越多,老公有些時候你一講他他就先不爽,再
繼續講下去就一定吵架,但真的很茫然,這樣分房要分到什麼時候?就算跟寶寶搬回主臥
,他不起來我心裡應該只會更生氣吧?
想請教大家怎麼調適自己的心情,因為寶寶分房睡的話還回得去嗎?真的好想好好解決。
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