Re: [心情] 這社會真的允許我們樂觀嗎?
好久沒來了
我看到這一串的時候還蠻驚訝的
我一直以為出櫃不出櫃就跟個人性別認同或是吃素吃葷一樣是一種個人選擇
沒想到居然弄得像是一種社會責任似的真的是嚇到我了XD
我確實沒有刻意出櫃
想一想確實是蠻自私的 但是那又怎麼樣呢?
誰不自私啊
就算是抱持大家都應該出櫃刺激社會的人
不也是一種想要大家一起來實踐你的想法的"自私"嗎?
每個人都有選擇自己生活方式的權利
我不認為自私是很負面的事情
如果不會傷害到其他人的生活 那自私又何妨
還是某些人認為這些不出櫃的拉子們 傷害到其他人的生活了嗎?
我不刻意出櫃的原因
是因為我覺得對我來說 講或不講 影響不大
我經濟獨立 有自己的生活
但我想跟父母保持良好的關係 這又有什麼錯呢?
考慮到兩老年事已高 我自己又沒什麼困擾
(加上現在又單身實在沒必要)
何苦去刺激他們呢?
選擇保護自己是自私 那為了自己出櫃傷害父母就不自私嗎?
我並不覺得父母有接納我性向的"責任"
我當然希望他們"能"接受 但評估過後就是不可行嘛
所以回歸主題
出櫃不出櫃根本就是個人選擇
難道我吃不吃青椒苦瓜還要昭告天下嗎?
不想被貼標籤說不吃苦瓜就是小屁孩臭了嗎?
鼓勵別人出櫃這件事情太複雜
每個人有自己人生的課題
分享自己的經驗讓想出櫃的孩子成功順利
讓不想出櫃的孩子平平安安 卡實在啦
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