Re: [心情] 對不起我簽署了"同志婚姻"但我後悔了
伴侶盟所推的同性婚姻跟伴侶制度是兩個不同的概念
同性婚姻即是爭取同性戀人跟異性戀一樣有結婚的權力
與現行婚姻制度之內的異性戀一樣,負同樣的權利與義務
這暫且不論
伴侶制度
則是在結婚之外,另外找尋一種在法律中締結關係的可能
概念類似兩人共同簽署一紙名為「伴侶」的契約
契約內容有基本的設定
包括代理、稅賦、遺產繼承、撫養等內容
這種設計的精神
來自彰顯伴侶協商同意的自主權利
意即 一旦兩個人要進入一段關係 並被法律保障認可
他們就應該要彼此為這段關係協商溝通出一個彼此同意理解的互動模式
以及協商並同意彼此應負的權利義務
否則就依循原始契約的最低度協定
而這種伴侶契約目前也還限止在一對一的關係裡
這次引起爭議的點
在於這個契約的基本設定不包含「性忠貞義務」
不像婚姻一樣,一結婚就自動有了「性忠貞義務」
如此設計的重點
在於無性關係的友伴家庭的締結(還可以與多人家屬合用)
或是配合有些同志伴侶彼此同意進行開放式關係的狀況
或是其他不以性關係為基礎的伴侶關係
但如果這一對伴侶認為「性忠貞義務」對他們的關係很重要
當然可以在締結伴侶契約之時
把「性忠貞義務」列入契約裡面
彼此不可以違反該項義務
否則就依照協定契約的內容進行下一步動作(解除?賠償?還是告到死??)
因此伴侶制度並不是排除了「性忠貞義務」
也不是認為「性忠貞義務」比較不好
或是打壓一對一的單一關係
而是希望這個決定權留給要締結伴侶的這兩個人
讓他們去討論清楚彼此的關係是什麼模式
並且如果契約要更動 也可以再度更動
希望這樣的解釋
可以解釋誤會原委
並稍微解除各位(?)的焦慮
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