[請益] 這個婚要結嗎
我朋友啊
就標準的理工人
就從小就是讀書補習都沒交過女友的那種
努力讀書之後算是有回報
有不錯的薪水
唯一的遺憾就是年輕沒有交過女朋友
某天突然有女性主動跟他交往
他認為總算苦盡甘來了,上天總算有回報了
大概交往半年左右吧,對方開始暗示他是不是該結婚了
我朋友也很願意
但是看了網路很多資源回收文,他也怕到了
於是找了婚前徵信+自己多方調查
發現對方年輕的時候真的是個玩咖夜店咖
他原本想說包容對方的過去
可是幾個朋友都有不同意見
有人說:你包容他過去,那誰來包容你年輕的灰暗人生?
爽都這些人在爽,苦果都我們這種人承擔,公平嗎?
也有人說:好不容易找到,包容吧,不然大概一輩子就這樣了
我朋友大概是想包容,但是他又怕,因為他知道這種只是為了自己以後的飯票
那如果哪天他被裁員,是不是對方馬上就會翻臉鬧離婚之類的
又或者看到更有錢的,是不是就把他當備胎丟掉
且結婚啥花費都是他要出,對方家人說本來就應該男方要出,還說要有房且要登記在女兒
門下這樣才有安全感;於是我朋友更沒有安全感了,哪天被裁員自己只能回家吃父母
但他又怕如果不結婚,以後就是這樣了,看到別人有老婆小孩自己啥都沒有很難受
於是陷入兩難
各位會如何抉擇?
題外話,最好笑是那群朋友,私底下都罵這種破麻不要也罷,但如果場合有女性就不一樣
說啥誰沒有過去包容吧之類的.......
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年輕人都沒玩過沒瘋過,整天讀書補習沒交過女友
結果對方年輕是個不檢點的,有年紀了就想找飯票
這樣還不灰暗喔,還是一定要比爛,不是最爛就不灰暗?
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也是啦,說不定真的只是年輕的時候瘋
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