Re: [寶寶] 訓練睡過夜?(回應百歲部分與建議)
感覺用推文的會打太長
所以用回文的
我自己不是心理專業的背景
但我先生是臨床心理出身而現在在做神經科學方面的研究
9月底也將迎接新生命
對於該如何教育小孩 我們也討論了非常多次
每個人有自己的選擇
但我想, 我先生絕對不會很武斷的說"某種派別不好"
因為不管親密或百歲 都各有其優缺點
在小孩沒生出來之前
我們目前是傾向偏百歲 但並非完全百歲
選擇百歲也不表示 就是照本宣科
一字不漏的完全照書本來養
親密有親密的好處 百歲也是一樣
像是對趴睡以及長時間哭泣 我個人也是不認同
但是我也不認同 一哭泣就立刻安撫
選擇百歲 不表示就不擁抱孩子 或給予孩子互動刺激
問題根本不是出在"百歲或親密"哪個好?
而是盲目或激進的推崇實施某一種育兒方式 才是問題
不管百歲或是親密的教養書籍
本來就只是給父母親"一個參考"
綜合不同育兒方式好的部份 然後再配合baby的狀況來決定
才是讀這些書的最終目的
孩子成長過程中 有更多影響孩子身心發展狀況的因素
絕對不會只因為你選了百歲 或選了親密
這麼單一的原因 就造成了終身無可抹滅的傷害
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