[其他] 老公坦承這種事情,心裡真的很難調適
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昨天老公白目惹我生氣
為了讓我不要再生氣,他說那跟我說一個秘密
(會用說秘密這樣的方式是因為以往如果我生氣,我都會叫他跟我說一個秘密我就不生氣)
前提:
我和我老公是高中同學(高中極度不熟),畢業後都沒在連絡
直到他研究所時,FB上看到我的名字才加我好友,然後才開始連絡
重點:
結果他就跟我說,當初他FB會加我純粹是精蟲充腦
我們是msn聊了很久後,他覺得和我聊天也滿有趣的,才用一個理由約我出來見面
會想約出來也是因為精蟲已經充腦很久
跟我見面後,他覺得我還ok,當天回家就跟我告白
(他坦承當時其實也有點亂槍打鳥,沒想到我這麼容易就答應)
然後,我還傻傻的以為,他當初會跟我告白是因為喜歡我才跟我告白
原來,根本是亂槍打鳥+精蟲充腦
後來相處久後,才真的真心喜歡上我
他還坦承另外一件事,因為我爸媽其實是個很客氣的人
我們剛在一起的時候,他如果來找我,我爸媽都會請他吃飯
(不貴,就是一起吃個便當之類的)
他也坦承,當初有時候來找我,也是抱持著順便可以省個一餐餐費之類的想法
(他是個非常節省的人)
綜合上面這兩點
1、一開始跟我告白是因為精蟲充腦+亂槍打鳥
2、一開始有時候來找我是抱持著可以省一餐餐費的心態
我聽完真得很難過、很錯愕、也很生氣
覺得我怎麼這麼笨,都已經結完婚生了一個兒子了,才知道這些事情
如果早知道他是這種想法,也不會有後面的事發生了
他看我不太開心,他就說也是因為見面後覺得我長的也不錯才有可能精蟲充腦告白
所以這句話我聽了應該比較開心?
雖然在一起久後,他才真心喜歡上我
現在除了也是一樣省之外,整體來說,對我也算還ok(同樣的,我媽對他也非常好)
但一開始的這些心態,我真得很難接受
想請問大家
我老公坦承的這些事我無法釋懷,大家都可以很容易的接受這事實嗎?
覺得是小事?是我自己小題大作?
心理是真得很難過很想哭
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