[心情] 跟老公在家庭花費上的觀念不同
是否同意記者抄文:NO
平常在家裡家事都是我跟老公分配做
我的部分就是煮飯燒菜、洗衣、簡單的清掃;老公就負責拖地、倒垃圾和清洗廁所
前陣子用很久的馬桶(TENCO?沒聽過的牌子)開始有點漏水的問題
想說從我們同居搬進去之後就一直是用這個馬桶,它也該功成身退了
所以我們就開始討論是否要直接換一個馬桶
但在挑選馬桶的時候意見有點不同
我覺得馬桶可以用沖水力道夠+馬桶SIZE合坐起來舒服就可以
但老公最近上網看到TOTO的水龍捲之後整個被煞到
堅持說他想買那個,還跑去門市問
回來之後一直說什麼質感很好而且比較耐用
說水龍捲可以讓馬桶清得比較乾淨,邊邊也比較不會那麼容易髒什麼的
我都懷疑他是不是被業務洗腦...
雖然我也聽過TOTO,但我覺得便宜買一台白牌的,可以用就好
結果昨天又討論到這個問題的時候,他直接口氣不太好的丟兩句過來說
「買一顆好的搞不好可以用幾十年,貪小便宜買到漏水貨你要修嗎?」
雖然平時廁所都他在弄比較多
有時水電問題他處理得了也會動手弄,他是比較了解該買哪種
但我覺得畢竟這個家是我們兩個人的,共同提出想法跟意見然後討論是很重要的
夫妻間或許常因為想法、意見不同而爭吵,但最重要的還是要溝通然後解決問題
這件事其實也沒有什麼誰對誰錯,只是我們彼此在這種東西上的價值觀不同
或許雙方都需要各退一步,但還是想要抱怨一下
有時真的會因為對方口氣不佳就難過一整天
也好奇大家跟老公或老婆對於這種家裡用品的選擇平時會有共識嗎?
我跟朋友抱怨這件事情之後,被唸說這種錢沒有必要省...
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不是負擔不起,只是因為目前小孩還小,總是覺得能省的錢還是可以省
可能就如大家所講的,這種東西他比較懂由他決定
但我還是希望當下他可以加減聽聽我的想法...謝謝大家的意見
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※ 編輯: OrCha (49.216.132.150), 09/12/2017 00:00:43
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