Re: [求助] 我這樣要求會很過分嗎?
我是原po,花了點時間看完大家的推文和回覆,我想我找到問題點了!
我太顧慮別人的想法和情緒,反而忽略了快臨盆的自己才是最重要的,對於婆家
而言我的配合只會讓他們越來越得寸進尺,感謝某些板友的提醒,讓我想起懷大
寶時的慘痛教訓,當初婆婆和老公都能要求懷孕後期需要吃藥安胎的我出席婚宴
了,我還能指望他們對於快臨盆的孕婦有多體貼~
昨晚趁大寶睡著後再次和老公討論這問題,他有跟公婆提過這件事,婆婆的經典
句「可以坐車啊!而且多誦經就好了!」又出現了,似乎只要我裝病不配合她的
行程就會出現這句話,或許對她而言,只要不用住院都不是大問題吧!倒是公公
一如既往的說尊重我的決定,所以我決定初一回婆家,初二回娘家,初三開始待
在自己家,至於其他親戚,我只能說「關我屁事」囉!
感謝大家的推文和回覆讓我不再糾結,至於讓老公前面揹沙袋體驗懷孕這建議正
在準備中,期待他開始體驗的那天,哈哈哈~
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她是虔誠的佛教徒,我不排斥宗教信仰,但是她很愛什麼事都扯上宗教,
聊天或討論時事新聞也會扯到宗教,連小孩生病很難搞也能扯,私以為她
是因為當了30幾年的全職媽媽,生活重心都在小孩和信仰上,現在小孩大
了,她就更加著重信仰了,不過最近她有把重心偏向我兒子的傾向,希望
我老了不要跟我婆婆一樣啊~(吶喊)
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※ 編輯: devilgirl (220.133.170.151), 12/22/2016 11:37:56
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