[心情] 如何修正自己心態
是否同意記者抄文:NO
哥嫂沒跟公婆住,一結婚住外面,房子公婆出大多,距離我們家騎車5分鐘,嫂的娘家也
在附近。
他們想要擁有自己的小家庭,生了2個,卻常把小孩丟來婆家,甚至上班日自己請休假一
早卻仍把小孩帶來,下班時間才來接,今天不到早上9點,又說要把小的帶來給婆婆顧。
我是無法選擇住外面的二媳(自己存款不足+剩2老蠻可憐的+房子夠大),他們家就兩兄弟
,所以該如何改變自己的心態,善用婆家資源的舊文看了許多,知道板上大多都是認為媳
婦不該在意公婆要如何給予子女資源,但我還是非常不以為然,就是非常不爽阿。
想住外面享受,又生2個卻無法2打2,自己生的自己要照顧不是嗎?
我們還沒生,公婆不會叫我們照顧哥嫂小孩,但住家裡的本來就有同住應盡的責任跟義務
,在看到他們送小孩來就拍拍屁股走人...我老公當然是不介意,可以同理,就像我超愛
我姐的小孩一樣....只是,住在這裡怎麼才能快樂?無解?
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