Re: [討拍] 不想和婆婆一起出國玩
那個女生的想法應該是,我介意和你媽出遊,但我不知道你介不介意和我媽出遊,所以我
問問看你的想法,如果你不介意那我媽就可以一起去,如果你介意那我就不要約我媽去。
所以我有先問過你,但你都沒有問我,是你不對。
男生把女生的問題解釋成,妳不在意小家庭出遊時可以協同長輩出門,且妳媽可以去,我
媽當然也可以去。我都不在意了,你應該也要不在意。
這隊夫妻,很不熟。
溝通的時候要把os講出來
原本的對話可能是這樣
女:我媽可以一起去嗎?
男:可以。
改成
女:我不想跟你媽一起去,可是我想約我媽去,這樣你介意嗎?
男:非常介意!
或者是
女:我媽可以一起去嗎?
男:我媽也ㄧ起去就可以。
: 因為擔心老公跟岳父岳母一起出國會不自在
: 所以先問他
因為原文中有提到這句,所以我認為女方應該沒有認為男方應該把女方父母當自己父母的
期望。
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