Re: [討拍] 不想和婆婆一起出國玩
※ 引述《isaacc (小元宅爸)》之銘言:
: 真是雙重標準
問題是標準是什麼?
是
1 徵詢對方是否願意和自己父母出遊?
還是
2 甲願意和乙的父母出遊
所以 乙就必須願意和甲的父母出遊 ?
第一種 是一程序 ,作為一個標準 無問題
第二種 是個人的特質,有些人怕生 有些人容易跟人家交朋友
這可以成為一個標準嗎?
不管人的差異,
甲一旦這樣做了,乙就是必須比照辦理
這就是我們追求的公平?
: 很簡單,四個字,將心比心。
: 特別是,妳自己也當媽媽也有小孩,人在做,天在看。
當你能將心比心,理解到那些不適應陌生人,無法放鬆者的心
你也能如此理直氣壯嗎?
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※ 編輯: yesnogod (1.168.79.114), 02/26/2016 11:22:22
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