Re: [心情] 該繼續走下去嗎?
我在懷孕7個月時娘家破產,老爸連夜捲走家中全部現金逃跑
留下剛進社會的妹妹+老媽+1間被貸2胎的房
做完月子我重回職場,轉職有bonus的國外業務,之前是庶務性質
賺的錢2/3給我媽(她幫我白天帶小孩,晚上又去便利店做小夜班)
我妹兼2份工作,假日再去賣場座花車展售
努力還債,6年後還清2胎房貸
沒破產前,我從沒想過我生完還要當職業婦女(夫家環境不須我外出工作),
還是做操死人不償命24hr開機狀態的業務,每個月一咖皮箱, 到處出差做業績
但我現在回首過去,非常慶幸當初我的決定,不安於現況,當個嬌嬌女哭哭
我出外打拼,我媽幫我顧小孩,她拿我的錢心安理得,在我婆家前腰桿也可挺直
(我要感謝婆婆&老公的體諒,在我拼命時他們提供的幫助,是我最大的靠山)
原po身負學貸+娘家孝親費,月收3-4W,文中看來對小家庭支出不大
老公身負養家重責,看到原po安逸生活態度才開始碎嘴吧
說真的,現在社會原po本身的壓力,3-4w真的很難小確幸
建議生活態度積極些,生於憂患死於安樂,安逸會造成懶散,而無法成事
早日還清學貸,才有多於財力支持小家庭,而不是全由老公一肩擔起,加油!
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