Re: [心情] 身為異女來回應 [心情] 你們覺得可以永
"討厭男人身體 很討厭父權結構的異女"
容我幫妳加上“但又無法跳脫內心深處對父權的愛慕和依賴”
一種米樣百樣人,我想大家應該也是能夠尊重妳的想法,
畢竟這是妳之所以是妳而非她人的原因。
但如要以此立場說明異女心情(或自稱異女),本人認為還是有段差距且矛盾。
更何況,
對"女生身體有興趣,無法接受異男身體,但是可以接受FTM"這立場就是很矛盾。
妳只是需要"看起來"並沒有悖離異性戀社會生活的樣子罷了。
FTM或是男性,就沒有女性化或是嬌弱的時候嗎?我想有的。
T得倒霉被冠上“女性化” 這種詞,而FTM就是純男人?
T也是有身高超過170, FTM/Man 也有未滿160的,
還是身分證上的性別欄才能讓妳有安全感?
這種完全偏頗的觀念,我想還是您最討厭的父權思想深植在心裡作怪吧。
很多T,其實也不過就是可以接受自己生理女這個事實. 思考邏輯, 甚至社經地位或是
身材外貌與一般男人並無差異. 與FTM 不過就只差異在社會性別.
其實我倒想說,FTM只要家庭環境允許,基本上換證或HRT/SRS, 幾年就可以完成.
但是we are what we was born. 這些手術或是賀爾蒙治療, 只是強制讓自己的外貌可
以被自己或是被社會重新接受. 並不能改變天生的DNA, 然而他們可以大剌剌的享受(或
躲進)父權社會給予的男性權利, 自詡異性戀甚至開始排斥女同也大有人在.
對抗社會或是對抗家庭, 誰才是最真實最勇敢的在做自己或是面對問題?
一切還很難說.
原生性別,社會性別,自我認同性別,我覺得您可能要好好想清楚妳要什麼。
應該可以說,其實您並不是異女。(呵呵)
離題了.
說穿了, 就是愛或不愛, 不然怎麼會說"矇阿坡雅乾去"?
欲加之罪, 何患無辭? 擦乾眼淚往前走吧.
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