[Mind] Random thoughts 3
I've been thinking a lot about the different stages of life lately. People say
that transitions in life are often the most difficult and crucial points~
For me, I have faced many such transitions already. Each one of them has been
challenging, in different aspects. One thing that I realized is that the older
you get, the more you are responsible for the choices that you make in these
transitions.
When you are young, even though you go through a lot of transitions, most of
them you have no choice, no decision to make. You simply follow what the adults
have planned for you. Therefore, however things turn out, it can not be
attributed to you 100%. And although not always true, in most common situations,
when you are young, the consequences of these transactions are small. So that
if you make a small mistake, it's ok, and you can make changes or do different
things if you should change your mind.
However, as an adult, the transitions become more and more important, some of
which are potentially life-changing. And also more importantly, you become
responsible for your own actions. Moreover, you have to bear the consequences
of whatever action you choose to take.
At the moment, I'm getting very close to a very important transitional point in
my life, arguably one of the most significant. That is, a transition between
being a student, and becoming a member of the workforce, working full-time.
In coming to this point of my life, I have already made many choices. In
choosing the courses that I study at university, I more or less pre-determined
my future career path. But it is when it really comes to the point to pursue
the career that I have worked so hard for, that I begin to have hesitations.
Not hesitations about the choices that I have made in the past, I believe I made
good choices. But rather, it's about where it leads me. I struggled for a long
time as for what to do. It had to be one of the most difficult choices that I
have made so far.
In fact, even though the decision has been made, I still have doubts about it
sometimes. I sometimes think about the alternatives, and hope that I have made
the right choice.
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