Re: [討論] 是我太老古板?
如果綜合以上觀點來看
人一生中除了伴侶之外,很多人不外乎都想要再一個可以談的心來的朋友
同性是不缺,異性至少要1~2個
但是往往常常會遇到另一半能不能接受的界線上問題
其實有可能是女生自身的觀念,覺得我沒有對不起你的事
而且她跟他的事他也沒有隱瞞,(如果隱瞞,你才真的有綠綠的了)
遇到這種事,你要A男少吃鹽(避嫌)應該不是可能
要妳女朋友跟他劃分界線~這也很難
(同事一場,後續要幫忙的一定也有,基本的社交行為還是要存在)
交往六年,如果因為這樣子打擊就自我亂手腳分了,是很可惜也很不值
畢竟她的行為上,感覺是屬於樂天分享派的~有人給她東西~她會很開心接受~
但是重點是~她會跟你分享,這才是得來不易的信任。
當然對一些人來說~聽到這種會不是滋味。
如果你想要跟她繼續下去
依我自身看法就是把這負能量轉換成正能量打回去
女朋友受人恩典~那就代之還之恩典。
你送來的東西~回禮就是親自跟女朋友討論再送回去~
依你女朋友的個性~應該會大剌剌的跟對方說~
這是我跟我男朋友感謝你的幫忙~他跟我選的回禮~
若必要時約出來一起吃飯~感謝他的幫忙~
~再以和平的方式~閃光彈似的回擊~(曬恩愛)。
確保自己的主權~且顯示自己的大器。。
心裡不舒服~吃醋的反應要表現出來~但是不能以不悅或生氣表現
因為這樣會增加醋意渲染過大~女方內心也會覺得不開心。
帶點撒嬌的吃醋~或是失落的吃醋語氣~自己另一伴才會有好的反應
(勾起母愛)
不要真的選錯路~才後悔就好。。。。。。
[死會活標闇黑學]
想要讓死會變活會的方式,就是小小的建議跟想法打入對方生活
例如:她跟另一半 的約會,你就幫忙出點子給建議等 貌似正向好意~
~而且也難以定罪~
就這樣給對方一點醋意~
不論日常~還是交談~
言論中只要帶有祝福她跟另一半~羨慕她跟另一半....等
例如:好好喔~你男朋友真貼心~真為你感到高興...
你男朋友應該最近忙~所以才有點小脾氣吧~要替他想想唷~...等
感覺又是正向好意~但是另一半看了會不會這樣覺得就難說了...
這樣一點一點醋意渲染過大~就是讓你可以準備收割了~
成功或失敗了~也不會落得奪人妻女 笑呵呵....的聲譽
--
※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 140.114.80.173
※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/Boy-Girl/M.1449801679.A.FC7.html
推
12/11 10:44, , 1F
12/11 10:44, 1F
推
12/11 10:46, , 2F
12/11 10:46, 2F
推
12/11 10:46, , 3F
12/11 10:46, 3F
→
12/11 10:46, , 4F
12/11 10:46, 4F
→
12/11 10:49, , 5F
12/11 10:49, 5F
→
12/11 10:50, , 6F
12/11 10:50, 6F
→
12/11 10:51, , 7F
12/11 10:51, 7F
推
12/11 10:54, , 8F
12/11 10:54, 8F
→
12/11 10:55, , 9F
12/11 10:55, 9F
→
12/11 10:55, , 10F
12/11 10:55, 10F
→
12/11 10:55, , 11F
12/11 10:55, 11F
推
12/11 10:57, , 12F
12/11 10:57, 12F
→
12/11 10:57, , 13F
12/11 10:57, 13F
→
12/11 10:58, , 14F
12/11 10:58, 14F
→
12/11 10:58, , 15F
12/11 10:58, 15F
推
12/11 11:02, , 16F
12/11 11:02, 16F
→
12/11 11:02, , 17F
12/11 11:02, 17F
推
12/11 11:06, , 18F
12/11 11:06, 18F
推
12/11 11:06, , 19F
12/11 11:06, 19F
→
12/11 11:07, , 20F
12/11 11:07, 20F
→
12/11 11:07, , 21F
12/11 11:07, 21F
→
12/11 11:09, , 22F
12/11 11:09, 22F
→
12/11 11:11, , 23F
12/11 11:11, 23F
→
12/11 11:11, , 24F
12/11 11:11, 24F
推
12/11 11:19, , 25F
12/11 11:19, 25F
→
12/11 11:20, , 26F
12/11 11:20, 26F
推
12/11 11:29, , 27F
12/11 11:29, 27F
→
12/11 11:30, , 28F
12/11 11:30, 28F
→
12/11 11:30, , 29F
12/11 11:30, 29F
→
12/11 11:44, , 30F
12/11 11:44, 30F
→
12/11 11:46, , 31F
12/11 11:46, 31F
推
12/11 11:47, , 32F
12/11 11:47, 32F
推
12/11 12:00, , 33F
12/11 12:00, 33F
→
12/11 12:01, , 34F
12/11 12:01, 34F
→
12/11 12:04, , 35F
12/11 12:04, 35F
推
12/11 12:26, , 36F
12/11 12:26, 36F
→
12/11 12:38, , 37F
12/11 12:38, 37F
→
12/11 12:38, , 38F
12/11 12:38, 38F
→
12/11 12:38, , 39F
12/11 12:38, 39F
還有 35 則推文
推
12/11 14:23, , 75F
12/11 14:23, 75F
噓
12/11 14:24, , 76F
12/11 14:24, 76F
→
12/11 14:24, , 77F
12/11 14:24, 77F
推
12/11 14:25, , 78F
12/11 14:25, 78F
推
12/11 14:27, , 79F
12/11 14:27, 79F
→
12/11 14:27, , 80F
12/11 14:27, 80F
→
12/11 14:27, , 81F
12/11 14:27, 81F
推
12/11 14:30, , 82F
12/11 14:30, 82F
→
12/11 14:30, , 83F
12/11 14:30, 83F
→
12/11 14:42, , 84F
12/11 14:42, 84F
→
12/11 14:42, , 85F
12/11 14:42, 85F
推
12/11 14:43, , 86F
12/11 14:43, 86F
推
12/11 14:53, , 87F
12/11 14:53, 87F
→
12/11 14:53, , 88F
12/11 14:53, 88F
→
12/11 14:53, , 89F
12/11 14:53, 89F
推
12/11 14:55, , 90F
12/11 14:55, 90F
→
12/11 14:55, , 91F
12/11 14:55, 91F
推
12/11 15:04, , 92F
12/11 15:04, 92F
→
12/11 15:04, , 93F
12/11 15:04, 93F
噓
12/11 15:05, , 94F
12/11 15:05, 94F
推
12/11 15:05, , 95F
12/11 15:05, 95F
推
12/11 15:06, , 96F
12/11 15:06, 96F
→
12/11 15:08, , 97F
12/11 15:08, 97F
→
12/11 15:10, , 98F
12/11 15:10, 98F
→
12/11 15:11, , 99F
12/11 15:11, 99F
→
12/11 15:11, , 100F
12/11 15:11, 100F
推
12/11 15:23, , 101F
12/11 15:23, 101F
→
12/11 15:23, , 102F
12/11 15:23, 102F
→
12/11 15:23, , 103F
12/11 15:23, 103F
→
12/11 16:27, , 104F
12/11 16:27, 104F
→
12/11 16:28, , 105F
12/11 16:28, 105F
→
12/11 17:11, , 106F
12/11 17:11, 106F
推
12/11 19:40, , 107F
12/11 19:40, 107F
推
12/11 20:00, , 108F
12/11 20:00, 108F
噓
12/11 22:25, , 109F
12/11 22:25, 109F
→
12/11 22:44, , 110F
12/11 22:44, 110F
噓
12/12 23:04, , 111F
12/12 23:04, 111F
噓
12/22 11:31, , 112F
12/22 11:31, 112F
→
12/22 11:32, , 113F
12/22 11:32, 113F
→
12/22 11:34, , 114F
12/22 11:34, 114F
討論串 (同標題文章)