Re: [心情] 我真的有公主病嗎
套一句蘇美的話,體貼是拿來要求自己的,不是要求別人的
我曾經在男友感冒發燒的時候照顧他一整天,幫他煮飯,他睡覺我就在旁邊用電腦
我男友也在我有次生理痛的時候,特地搭一個小時的車跑來看我
但這都是因為我們知道,對方是覺得自己搞定理所當然,伴侶體貼會大感激的人
要是對方是"你本來就應該要陪,不然我單身就好交男女朋友做啥"的人
一定二話不說分手讓你去恢復單身獨立吧
伴侶之間要互相扶持沒錯,但那是要建立在互相感謝對方的前提下
雙方都感謝對方的付出,這才是正向的加深感情
而不是認為互相是應該的,做不到就扣分,不然伴侶有啥用
這樣會讓人覺得,你只不過是被迫獨立,有工具人的時候就狂用而已
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應該說是額外付出體貼
如果我自己生病對方有既定行程,不陪沒差
如果我生病對方盧我去做些有的沒的,這連做人基本尊重&禮貌都沒有
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沒有噢,他要講才知道
我是問他可不可以來,如果不來也沒關係
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你用"要求"就強迫性很重了
我是"問問看"他願不願意
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你問朋友等下要不要一起去吃飯,是要求嗎
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那當你朋友壓力也真大= =
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如果一起做啥事他都不願意,就觀念不合分手啊
對方不是因為自己想做而做,是為了義務而做,那這樣更悲哀
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大概是我之前的文吧
不過我整篇文章也沒說互相付出是錯的
我是說互相付出要感激,不要當作理所當然對方應該做的
這樣就叫做否定別人 罵別人有公主病......
※ 編輯: MapleT 來自: 114.25.34.167 (09/20 13:32)
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