Re: [寶寶] 糾結於從母姓,是我的問題嗎?
我有個想法,不管要不要從母姓都可以多利用抽籤,
本身不在意小孩姓氏的女性,
抽到放棄就好,
可以藉機提醒老公從父姓不是應該的,
小孩也不是X家的所有物,
以避免像原po放棄小孩從母姓被視為這種理所當然的情況;
本身希望小孩從母姓的女性則可以公平爭取。
即使媽媽的姓來源可能是外公,但依舊是媽媽的姓,
從母姓怎麼樣都是合理的、不需要理由的,
對於某些認為從母姓需要理由的人,
真的很想反過來問為什麼不是丈夫要提交從父姓與母姓的風險利益分析報告呢?
另外,分享一下小孩不同姓基本上沒什麼問題的,
從小到大被問的次數可能不超過五隻手指頭,
問到了也只是說明原因,
越大越不會有人問,
大家都怕踩到別人的家內事,
不用替小孩擔心這方面的問題…
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跟年紀的差距有關係吧?
不過被問到也不會怎樣,
我家狀況更複雜,要不要解釋是看我心情,
不需要因為這樣就怕小孩無法應付,
教小孩如何大方解釋就好了。
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