Re: [閒聊] 孩子不是用來孝順的工具
: → sakurachang: 謝謝大家指教。去年診斷出我的小孩有自閉症 為了帶他 09/20 09:54
: → sakurachang: 做早療,所以我離職陪他。他偶爾是會有突發性情緒問 09/20 09:54
大家別糾結在買個汽座就好了,因為除了汽座問題外,更大的是小孩本身
的狀況。
自閉症的小孩不是隨便給的汽座就好了,顏色、形狀、大小、款式不一樣
可能都不行。
如果是一般素色的也就罷了,要是豹紋還是點點的,或是他曾在原來的汽
座挖了一個小洞,導致新汽座沒有完全一樣的話,他會跟你說這個汽座不
是他的,他不要坐。
一般小孩可以用說的、用罵的,強迫他坐;可是自閉症小孩強迫他坐,他
會叫會鬧會打人。自閉症小孩打起人來是沒有力道觀念的,絕對是100%力
道打下去。男生的話常常到了國小高年級或國中,打人時就不是一個成年
女性抓得住的程度了。
就算孩子現在還小好了,一個行動不便的婆婆,在緊急狀況的時候,要能
帶好(制住)一個情緒爆炸的自閉症小孩,恐怕會是心有餘而力不足。
要帶好這個孩子,需要的是更多的耐心、接納、提前預告與明確指令,我
也不覺得這些是婆婆跟小姑做得到的。
對於身處一個婆婆小姑想玩孫、先生沒有小孩是自閉症自覺的家庭裡的媽
媽,只能對您說聲「您辛苦了」。
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