Re: [其他] 奶爸當自強
第一次想噓Nothinges。
個人一家都是教育體系傳承,父母走親密育兒.
我走半百歲+中庸。
哭一小時.餓個幾餐.趴睡.
個人覺得不會怎樣。
心不狠除了站不穩,
其餘.講道理.安撫.
還有對小孩溫柔體貼.不體罰,
這些動作只是在「溺愛」.
在當未來進擊的恐龍家長。
溺愛並不會讓孩子性格變
得更堅強穩定。國中畢業之前
小孩都必須服從。體罰是必須
的,現在的小孩就是欠揍,小
時候不教養往後殺父殺母都會來。
我是教育體系的後代,成就沒
有到非常好,只是日子過得還
不錯。沒必要抨擊軍事教育體
系或抨擊別人家怎麼教養小孩。說真的,不.干.妳.的.事。除非妳是個正規高階教育者。
非得逼妳出面管這種閒事。
意欲當恐龍家長,
讓未來的我們抨擊不懂教
養,這也是一種選擇。
正義魔人.很愛通報社會局.113.
保母協會的.不懂裝懂.我前保
姆就是,所以我把她fire了。
沒必要從頭到尾順從著世間邏輯做事。十年換一輪的教養邏輯有什麼參考價值?父母快樂
才會有快樂的孩子,先把我們自己搞快樂了,孩子跟著也快樂,到底哪裡錯?非得被親密
派抨擊成自私?我們可從沒說過親密育兒派對孩子身體心靈健康有害。此觀念恕無法苟同。
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