Re: [閒聊] 要幫婆婆付吃飯錢嗎?
阿~我不太瞭解原PO的原生家庭及其想法
但近幾年來看到一些狀況
我一直很好奇真的有人能徹底做到完全AA制嗎??
(還是只挑自己有利的?
-老實說大部分我看到幾乎沒有一對夫妻能做到完全AA制)
...
有時候人生不是只有現在~而是放遠未來
如果原PO想與另一半走一輩子...或許自己原則的拿捏要再思考一下
拿捏得好叫公平..拿捏不好叫自私
..
..舉例1.
假設20年後雙方之某方家出問題需龐大費用或龐大的人力...
以AA制的觀念...是不是各家顧各家??
但某方一時拿不出這麼大費用或提供這麼大的人力資源,該怎辦呢?
無事的另一方的做為有:
1.我先借你費用按月息攤還...(真AA制)
2.先借費用...有錢再還(半套AA含一點人情)
3.先借費用..若還不行我們再來一起想辦法
(個人認為除了1.沒占他人便宜才是真AA制)
若人力的部分:
1.你家父母你自己找上班閒暇時兼顧或跟你兄弟姊妹商量
2.我先幫你顧哪幾天..先欠著我有記錄我幫你顧多少時間...之後要還我喔
3.阿沒關係...我們是夫妻都是自己父母我們一起幫忙
(個人認為只有1.2有達到AA制...)
舉例2小孩篇
小孩發生事情
照顧問題
1.時間各分135,246一人分一半時間顧,一個顧早上一個就要顧下午(排班表做出來)
(工作時間喬不定個人問題,不要影響另一人工作)
2.大家互相幫忙誰有空誰可以請假先幫忙
(真AA制我覺得是1)
小孩用錢
1.當然也AA制啦~有什麼問題
從小-托育費.奶粉錢.尿布錢.看病錢大到生活費.讀書費有的沒有的應該做明細一人一半喽!!
舉例3生活費用含房錢
1.當然也AA制喽...
買房頭期款加房貸加裝潢費外加日後每月家用應該也要做表格AA制吧?!
...
以上我個人是覺得若連婆婆飯錢都要這麼計算
個人感覺以上或許也先談妥達成共識比較好!!
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