[求助] 婆婆不願意降低孝親金額
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我老公是科技廠的小主管
一年的收入大約110~120萬
以前我老公跟我婆婆有個協議
不約定每個月給多少錢 就是年終跟年分紅
就當孝親費,配合公司的發給時間給就好
可是大家也知道科技廠的主管獎金是很驚人的
我很早就知道老公是這樣給孝親費的
(當時還是普通朋友,所以覺得不關自己的事)
可是緣份到了,最後我跟我老公還是在一起,並在很短的時間就決定結婚
當我們開始要籌備時,婆婆就開始說話了
或許是因為我們交往兩個月就決定要結婚
這讓所有人都驚訝(我們會在一起也讓其他人驚訝)
分析了我跟我老公的收入跟支出以及對未來的規劃
假設:
我老公一年120萬
孝親40萬
房貸40萬
每年需繳的稅12萬
剩下28萬過生活還每個月要請爸媽吃飯
又不能隨便吃吃(父親節吃艾美涵舍)
(上個月吃欣葉台菜)
以前我老公一個人,所以覺得孝順爸媽沒關係
但現在他想要有自己的家庭有自己的小孩
當我老公跟他媽媽說他想結婚之後
他媽媽就直接表示家裡沒錢
未來就算我老公接他們過來,這40萬還是要
也直接表明如果我懷孕,他們就會搬過來
他媽媽甚至還說以後小孩生下來,
我還是要外出工作,薪轉到我老公戶頭
就因為他媽媽這些話,
讓我老公現在完全不想再跟他媽媽談結婚
可是我跟我老公已經招告天下我們明年結婚
婚紗也訂好了
這時他媽媽又說家裡需要錢,
既然我老公有錢結婚還不如把錢拿回家
所以他媽媽目前不考慮我們的婚事,也沒提親的打算
可是這情形我又不敢讓我媽知道
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