Re: [討論] 房子該掛誰的名字?
※ 引述《ipodfw ()》之銘言:
我是原PO,沒想到問個問題,得到大家熱心回應,非常感謝!
基於保護隱私,不在具體多說明,若非吵得厲害,恐怕不清楚情形,
說點能說的,
小孩出生後物品爆增,租屋不便,婚前男生有說先買公寓才結婚,
共同持分,一起打拚,但挑不到屋而作罷!女生沒說什麼,還是嫁,
婚後租屋雙薪,經濟尚可,兩人工作忙碌,
慢慢看房子,男方父母此時說要幫忙出一些,看到房子後,
(以下情節如我原文所述)
女生覺得怪,公婆想幫忙出,說這是公婆幫忙出錢,買給夫妻的,
先放公婆名下,過幾年再過戶,反正你們都住一起,夫妻沒差,
男生說,父母願意出錢,自己爸媽信得過,幾年後過戶給男生,
男生再過一半給女生,放心!父母到時候一定會過戶的,不會給弟弟,
女生說,但貸款餘下的都是我們繳,如果繳很多年後,公婆不過戶,
卻過戶給弟弟,還是拿去賣掉,那不是什麼都沒有,
(OS:如果到時候就算男生拿到厝,卻又不過戶給妳一半!?)
-- 分隔線,以下的話比較 --------------------------
還有,像版友說的,登記在公婆名下,到時候公婆不爽,就被趕出門,
或者是到時候人家找各種理由,說妳不夠孝順待奉公婆,
還是到時候夫妻感情不和睦,想離婚,反正房子在夫家手上,
好像成為綁住媳婦,讓妳乖乖聽話的方式,可笑的是房貸也要媳婦出錢,
要妳好好待奉公婆,要妳聽話,要妳退讓忍耐,
要妳承擔做一個媳婦的責任,要妳撫養小孩,做賢內助,
房子的名字在公婆這,想什麼時候給,要看看妳的表現,
妳吵啊,妳鬧啊,妳離婚啊,都沒關係,那到時候妳什麼都沒有,
因為婚姻生活裡,工作賺來的錢,扣除生活養小孩,都付房貸了,
了不起有一點私房錢和積蓄,
乖乖當個好媳婦,當好咱們家的媳婦,到時候是該是妳的,會是妳的,
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上面,這是另一個朋友的猜測,整理了一下,想辦法說得得體些,
也許,沒有這麼糟糕啦,
但這樣的話,加強了我們支持女方,來反對此事的態度就是,
不管怎麼樣,女生都是吃虧的!
公婆真的要大方,錢給男生,叫男生多付點房貸,夫妻各1/2共同持分,
反正錢都是要給的,人情氣度都做到,媳婦孝順也心甘情願!
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