[心情] 比老公就算了,連公公也要比較嗎?
老爸前幾天匯了十萬給我,說是幫我還房貸。不過後面附了一句話
「這筆錢算是媽媽借給你們用的,等她老了以後再還」
老婆聽了氣的要我把這筆錢還回去,她的意思是,既然要幫人,
怎麼還用這種要人家以後回報的心態,這樣子她拿錢心理壓力很大
如果是200萬心裡有壓力就算了,區區10萬元也要如此
這錢不拿也罷
然後又舉她嫁得好的姐姐當例子,說她的公公又大方又明理
買了一棟透天在橋給他們家,她姐嫌偏僻不想搬過去,
一直租在娘家附近,最近就在娘家附近買了一間房子,
貸款200萬,留100萬當裝潢費,剩下的房價由公公出,
她公公還很貼心的問她;「你們貸200萬會不會太多還不出來?」
(連我都閃到受不了了)
老婆說她的公公跟人一比高下立判,別人家是怕兒子還不出貸款。
我們家是出個10萬還要叮嚀一下以後要還,說真的我也覺得差很大
我還是只能繼續開導老婆,說這就是我們家的教育方針,子女
不能把父母當成靠山。可是老婆就是聽不進去,一直說現在的
房價很貴,她聽過所有人買房子都是靠爸的(這不是罵人的話)
說真的我也不知道該怎麼說,老媽退休了,每個月只靠勞保那些錢
老爸明年可能也要退休了,退休金就是幾百萬而已(40年的年資
,真是少得可憐),換句話說他們快要沒有income了。能拿錢
幫我們還房貸就只有感激,畢竟領薪水的人,怎麼跟別人做生意的相提並論
我知道老婆就是不想被姐姐比下去,這種心結我也沒辦法幫她解
可是這種差異變成了她對我抱怨的種子。我也只能選擇聽而不聞
父母在經濟上不是negative就很好了,還肖想是forward
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