[難過] 老婆和我提離婚了 我該怎麼挽回已回收
如題 小弟我結婚剛滿三年 最近老婆和我提出離婚要求
由於小弟我還是非常愛我老婆 很希望能挽回 卻苦無辦法
所以來到這裡 希望各位能提供我一些建議 甚至罵罵我都好
以下開始背景介紹:
我老婆長年待在國外求學,所以思想非常美式
很不幸的我爸媽卻是非常傳統,對於”媳婦”常有需多要求
例如回鄉下必須煮飯給長輩吃、不能睡太晚等等
(小弟我不幸又是長子..所以我老婆身為”長媳”又更加嚴苛..)
於是我老婆在遇到這些要求時就常常非常生氣,
為何這些不會發生在老外家庭上的不合理要求會發生在她身上,
她認為我爸媽沒把她當自己人,而是”媳婦”。
而我也該罵,因為除了某些場合盡量幫我老婆忙 (例如幫她洗碗,或先幫忙洗菜等等)
其他處理方式其實非常消極
就是盡量減少大家的見面次數(沒一起住,目前頻率約一周和我爸媽一起吃一次飯,大型
節日例如三節回鄉下家族團聚)
相處時遇到被碎念的時候、就要求我老婆單方面忍耐,聽聽就算了這樣(唉..我真的該死)
。
我以為這樣可以相安無事,卻大錯特錯,
我們家小孩習慣被念、但我老婆可不習慣,
就這樣累積了三年,終於在最近爆發了。
我老婆提了離婚、說她累了,不適合在這種家庭繼續生活、壓力太大
我才驚覺說,原來事態已經這麼嚴重
事已至此,請問版上各位女士,
小弟我有甚麼好辦法能挽回她嗎?
目前我能想到的有:
1. 去和我爸媽說、以後除了過年都看不到你媳婦,吃飯聚餐都我一人參加 (但我老婆說
這樣她會覺得爸媽會生氣、她也不開心)
2. 出國工作、走得遠遠的,拉開距離不相處就沒事
小弟我真的很愛我老婆也很珍惜這段婚姻,
所以很希望能挽回她,
如果大家有任何想法、拜託告訴小弟我
感激不盡..
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