Re: [新聞] 女方開口200萬聘金 男方不給結婚告吹消失
先說我是男的
其實我對於結婚要收聘金這件事一直覺得很不解
我一直以為聘金這種東西是舊時代下的產物
以前大多數人家務農
在那種女子無才便是德的年代
女子對一個家族的意義就是人力和傳宗接代
當男方取了女方後
女方就是男方家的人 女方家少一人 男方家多一人
嫁出去的女人 潑出去的水 這句話就是在這樣的時代背景下產生
我以為 聘金 這種東西是在這樣的時代背景下產生的
其實實質上 我覺得聘金說穿了就是男方家庭對於女方家的一種〝補償〞
但在現在這樣的社會
很多女人都有自己的工作和生活
成就也不比男人差
結婚也從以前的指腹為婚和媒妁之言跟父母之命 轉為自由戀愛
結婚已經不再是單純為了繁衍後代而有的東西
我覺得收聘金這種東西感覺在這樣的時代還存在是一件很弔詭的事情
老一輩的就算了
現在年輕的女性 會覺得結婚拿聘金(不論多寡)是合理的嗎???
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