[請益] 是否真的是我個人不懂禮節?
看板MenTalk作者ScreamScrew (ScreamSscrew_Moon)時間10年前 (2013/09/23 01:19)推噓144(148推 4噓 340→)留言492則, 98人參與討論串1/13 (看更多)
因為一些事情跟朋友處的不太愉快。
雖然最後有講開,但態度明顯有所改變。
我搞不懂真的是我不懂禮節還是單純踩到朋友的點
所以上來PO文請大家給點想法,謝謝。
中秋節應映時節所以幾個朋友辦了場烤肉。
這裡且稱朋友為A男,他帶來一個女生稱B女。
幾個朋友(包含我)都知道A男跟B女沒有什麼特別關係(行為與名義上皆無)。
A男也聲稱他並不喜歡B女。(但為何帶B女來烤肉原因不知)
我和B女也是第一次見面。
兩人相言甚歡之後B女加了我FB跟LINE好友。
當晚我有跟A男說B女加了我好友,當下A男並無太大反應。
後來幾日我和B女都有聊LINE。
基於我和A男是大學多年的好友,我都有與A男告知此事。
數日之後有天A男突然語帶不善的致電給我說我這樣的行為是很沒有禮貌的,
當下也拉了另一個參加烤肉的朋友來讚聲。
那時我很錯愕,認為單純只是交個朋友並無不可,為何A男隔了數日反應才這麼大?
看在A男情緒上(也有想維護這段友情),我默默聽完也道了歉。
只是很不解,為了一個只見過一次面的女生發了這麼一場不愉快似乎很不值得。
究竟真的像我朋友A男說的
「他帶了B女來,後來散會後我和B女私下聊天是個很不懂禮節的行為。」
(A男又強調了這次不愉快不是因為女生的關係,而是A男覺得我這行為很沒禮貌。
然後強調我跟B女"私下"聊天他很不高興,但我澄清每次聊天我都有公開跟A男說。
最後還強調,我這個行為是大多數人不能接受的,
他是為了我好才致電給我講這件事。)
我真的被搞混了,真的是大多數人無法接受像我這種行為嗎?
還是單純我踩到我朋友A男的點?
P.S.他們大約是一個月前在夜店認識的。
我不敢說我朋友是善男,但B女應該也不是什麼信女。
為了這種事跟朋友這樣鬧得不愉快..我真的覺得不值得。
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