Re: [問卦] 有沒有戀愛專家蘇美的掛?消失
如果你是有「正常社交能力」的男性,通常很難變成蘇美的粉絲,
因為你知道如何討人喜歡,所以很自然會有另一半,
因為你知道人與人相處的分際在哪,所以不會變成工具人,
蘇美文章講的東西,就跟「叫你匯點卡99.9%是詐騙」一樣,
明明就很想當然爾的事情,為什麼可以整天拿出來講。
可是對於社交能力有障礙的男性來說,蘇美就非常有魅力了,
因為不管是找不到女友,或者是被女生當成工具人,
你都可以解釋成別人的錯,不是自己的問題,
誰叫女生太公主、太現實、太不講邏輯,
我才會在感情路上遇到這麼多挫折。
當然不可否認,蘇美確實有他的一套,
他很懂得見縫插針、斷章取義,
扭曲解讀出一個很棒的靶子,然後再痛快淋漓的把它打爆,
看在正常人眼裡,會覺得就跟摔角一樣,
雖然娛樂效果十足,但畢竟都是套招的,千萬不能當真。
可是對於某些人來說就不一樣了,
他們天生有障礙,分不清楚真功夫和套招的差別,
所以看著摔角選手依樣畫葫蘆,就覺得自己變成了武林高手,
但真的出去和現實碰撞,下場就是被打得鼻青臉腫,
只好又躲回電視前,繼續死命看著表演,
然後幻想自己有一天也能天下無敵。
因此要打破這種循環,絕對不是繼續狂推蘇美,
看他發文戰女生就好開心,覺得他替你出了一口惡氣,
相反的,你必須體認到,當你在感情路上頻頻遇到挫折時,
不管是追不到女生,或者是被當成工具人、ATM,
通常問題都是出在你自己,你社會化不完全,沒有正常的社交能力,
而只有改進自己這個缺陷,才有可能改變自己人生的際遇。
但很顯然,蘇美不會提醒你這件事,
他只會不斷表演漂亮的套招摔角,把那些甚至不存在的壞公主打爆,
你越看越爽、越陷越深,但也錯過了讓自己更幸福的可能。
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如果你有正常的社交能力,要怎麼變成工具人和ATM......?
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