Re: [公蟹] 他又縮回殼裡去了...
同是處女女,我很懂那種愛上的堅持。
就來幫你試著回答一些問題吧!!
我和我家這隻蟹在一起十年了~
現在還是甜蜜的到處亂閃大家。XDD
當然我們也經歷過你所謂大吵後的平淡,
平淡也有平淡的幸福,但是會造成處女座的不安。
我想你的不安應該是來自於沒信心,
如果你還相信他愛你,或是仍有機會,那還等什麼?
勇敢去追你的愛吧!
處女座要改變自己並不難,只要你下定決心。
當時的我…連覺得自己都沒機會,打算要放棄,
每天都活在痛苦之中,哭臉對著蟹蟹,晚上睡前都在哭。
蟹蟹應該也在等我開口說出最殘忍的兩個字吧
我想我最大的原因都是因為愛到失去自己
(我覺得看到現在的你,很想當時的自己)
那陣子,因為沒信心,什麼都順著蟹蟹,
每天憂鬱到分析自己是不是憂鬱症
我試了很多方法
變漂亮 不要踩蟹蟹的地雷 有話直說(蟹悶在心裡,我也悶在心裡,比悶嗎?)
改變負面心態 找讓自己開心事情 和蟹蟹講話時保持歡樂
找些事情做,互相配合對方的行程
最重要的是
找回自己的信心,就是找回讓蟹蟹愛上你的那個最初的你
最後,我又把我家老爺的心留下來。
事後想想也對,如果老是看到自己的悲傷,又怎能和老爺開心呢?
聰明的女孩們,這方法不一定適合你。
但是改變心態,是一個最有效也是最後的辦法。
以前蟹蟹忙,我都會自己鑽牛角尖,跑進死胡同
現在蟹蟹忙:公公~人家好想你喔~什麼時候可以和你見面?
經過那次的洗禮,我相信熱戀期可以自己創造(自己耍噁心)
他很忙,更要展現出你無微不至的貼心。
我家蟹蟹愛吃甜,我都亂買甜食餵他~
適度制約後,等他不忙100%就會來黏住你XDDD
其實你大概也知道問題的癥結~解決它就是了!
原原PO加油,機會要自己把握!
我成功過,我想你也可以!^^
BTW 我們現在很甜蜜 阿蟹整天都在跟我告白>////<
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