[求助] 該不該繼續跟這個人走下去
看板Boy-Girl作者her7913 (mmm不懸疑了哈哈)時間7年前 (2017/06/10 13:55)推噓92(111推 19噓 157→)留言287則, 144人參與討論串1/3 (看更多)
大家好,
我跟男友交往三年,一直有把他當結婚的對象,但最近開始有點動搖...
他平常都對我蠻好的,不是金錢上的好,是非常體貼的照顧,是接送、做家事等等,也很
尊重我,包括我脊椎有問題,走路會麻腳,他出遊也會幫我準備板凳,不曾嫌棄我身體不
健康,是我目前遇到過最細心的男生。
但他小時候有被家暴的陰影,所以只要我們有口角他就會有自殘行為,這兩年比較誇張的
有撞牆、跳火車鐵軌等行為。
最近因為他創業有點不順,心情自卑緊張,有次我到他店裡幫忙,隔壁店跟他稱讚我很會
做生意、叫他要加油,結果他自卑感大發,突然大聲吼叫洩憤,後來我把他拉進來冷靜一
下,但是店也不能沒人我就繼續出去和客人攀談,回來發現他躺在地上大哭。
我了解他壓力大,但我平常也跟他說,生意做不起來就算了,我家也是做生意,來我家也
可以。
經過這次真的覺得對他有點失望,一個快三十的人情商這樣正常嗎?這樣的行為嚇到我也
嚇到別人已經不是第一次了,真的有點想放手。
而且最怕的是他以後不只是自虐而已,結婚後會變成家暴,那我就真的很想哭了,現在該
割捨嗎?
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※ 編輯: her7913 (223.143.249.154), 06/10/2017 14:00:14
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我爸媽聽了也不敢相信,他平常是非常斯文、客氣的人
他們叫我好好想清楚,我現在還有抽身的機會
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那我可以帶他去就醫嗎?
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他已經黑很久了,
我懂您的意思,因為之前我有輕微憂鬱一天到晚莫名落淚,也是他陪我走過的不曾嫌棄我
... 我不想輕易放棄卻又很擔心自己的人身安全
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