Re: [求助] 說服男友讓我去夜店看看
我建議妳乾脆換個男友,為什麼呢?因為你們
價值觀根本完全不同啊!夜店到底有什麼好嚐
鮮的,明明知道屬於是非之地,那麼想去當渣
男們一個晚上的女神?換個角度吧,如果妳男
友手機裡裝滿蜜蜂、Skout這些東西,告訴妳他
只是嚐鮮而已,不會沉迷,妳怎麼想?是的,
很多事情都讓人好奇,想一探究竟,但不是每
件事都這麼非一試不可。
相信妳很可能瞞著他上夜店,如果他心灰意冷
,決意甩掉妳,妳要不要再上來抱怨男友控制
欲強,抱怨男友父權?先講了,這根本不是問
題所在,而是妳不懂尊重男友。如果那麼堅持
要去見見世面,拜託不要再浪費男友青春了。
我絕對不是來備份的,純粹分享我的看法而已
,感情關係中最需要尊重,尊重就是包容和妥
協,做不到的話請務必找到一個願意完全遷就
妳,或者價值觀和妳相近的男生交往,不要逼
男友答應他不願答應的事,這不是因為他是男
生,是因為你們是情侶,妳對他若有什麼要求
或期望,只要在雙方主觀合理範圍內,他也是
需要體諒和妥協的。
※ 引述《gigi2440824 (Iyu)》之銘言:
: 男友本身不跑夜店但去過
: 我一直是一個很有好奇心的人
: 對於沒去過的地方都有很大的好奇心
: 每次聽朋友說去夜店的事
: 總是會想去看看那裡面的一切
: 但男友總是說不行
: 說女生去幹嘛只是被摸啊
: 我也曾說過那就一起去
: 但他只會跟我說男生很貴浪費錢
: 說跟女生朋友一群一起去
: 也是說危險不准
: 每次要求去夜店看看就無限開啟上面的循環....
: 請問大家到底該怎麼辦?
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