[心情] 收到男友中秋送的禮
交往四年多,第一次收到他送的中秋禮盒
大概是因為今年我正式認識了他的家人,也送了月餅禮盒給他們家。
但中秋節前夕,他帶著三盒和辦公事團購零散的三盒月餅(一盒三顆那種)
說是做愛心才一起買的,可是也不便宜,要我帶回去給家人
拿回家之後,往往過節家裡就有一盒一盒的餅堆在桌上
剛好回來的時候,長輩都休息了,我就默默的把這三盒看起來沒有氣勢的餅擺在旁邊
後來爺爺問:這誰拿回來的?
我說:這是我男朋友送的
爺:你怎麼給人家收這個東西!!!他這麼省!!你還給他
我:我也有送啦~~不要擔心
想一想....
他雖不是第一次來我家,但也從未正式的到我家來拜訪
每次來都招待他吃吃喝喝、切水果甚麼的
結果他第一次回禮給我,人沒到、禮也不體面
這樣送禮的誠意有幾分?我想我家也沒有人知道.....
他已經快30歲了,月收入最少也有70K,
難道以他的年紀和經濟能力,沒辦法讓他選擇更好的送禮方式嗎?
還是我對他要求太多了呢?
我雖只是社會新鮮人...但我想有些禮節應該是常識吧?
題外話
早上和媽媽談起這件事
媽媽說他很省沒錯 可是省到來女方家裡永遠都穿邋哩邋遢上衣、短褲、夾腳拖
好像來我們家就當作他家廚房一樣走
你看你未來的姊夫(堂姊的男朋友)每次來是不是都穿的很體面,還會抓頭髮
給人很慎重的感覺 難怪你爺不喜歡他。
過節送禮真的可以看出做人處世的態度...吧
--
※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc)
◆ From: 114.36.152.14
※ 編輯: audigirl 來自: 114.36.152.14 (09/21 20:04)
推
09/21 20:06, , 1F
09/21 20:06, 1F
→
09/21 20:07, , 2F
09/21 20:07, 2F
推
09/21 20:07, , 3F
09/21 20:07, 3F
→
09/21 20:07, , 4F
09/21 20:07, 4F
→
09/21 20:07, , 5F
09/21 20:07, 5F
推
09/21 20:08, , 6F
09/21 20:08, 6F
噓
09/21 20:08, , 7F
09/21 20:08, 7F
→
09/21 20:08, , 8F
09/21 20:08, 8F
→
09/21 20:09, , 9F
09/21 20:09, 9F
推
09/21 20:09, , 10F
09/21 20:09, 10F
→
09/21 20:10, , 11F
09/21 20:10, 11F
→
09/21 20:10, , 12F
09/21 20:10, 12F
→
09/21 20:10, , 13F
09/21 20:10, 13F
→
09/21 20:10, , 14F
09/21 20:10, 14F
推
09/21 20:11, , 15F
09/21 20:11, 15F
→
09/21 20:12, , 16F
09/21 20:12, 16F
→
09/21 20:13, , 17F
09/21 20:13, 17F
→
09/21 20:15, , 18F
09/21 20:15, 18F
→
09/21 20:15, , 19F
09/21 20:15, 19F
其實衣著我說過很多次,可是他有的休閒服就是這種
鞋子的話他是說夾腳拖比較舒服,即便我說要穿體面一點,他也還是以自己舒服為主
以前他來我家幾乎都不和我家人"用說話的方式"打招呼,就只是點個頭,
因為我家長輩眼睛都不是很好,所以也都沒看到他點頭,還以為他都不理人
之後和他講過一定要叫人、大聲問好
他有時候都是等我家長輩問說:是不是某某某來了?
他才會靠過去打招呼....
※ 編輯: audigirl 來自: 114.36.152.14 (09/21 20:19)
→
09/21 20:16, , 20F
09/21 20:16, 20F
噓
09/21 20:16, , 21F
09/21 20:16, 21F
→
09/21 20:16, , 22F
09/21 20:16, 22F
→
09/21 20:18, , 23F
09/21 20:18, 23F
→
09/21 20:19, , 24F
09/21 20:19, 24F
推
09/21 20:19, , 25F
09/21 20:19, 25F
→
09/21 20:19, , 26F
09/21 20:19, 26F
→
09/21 20:19, , 27F
09/21 20:19, 27F
→
09/21 20:19, , 28F
09/21 20:19, 28F
→
09/21 20:19, , 29F
09/21 20:19, 29F
→
09/21 20:19, , 30F
09/21 20:19, 30F
→
09/21 20:19, , 31F
09/21 20:19, 31F
→
09/21 20:20, , 32F
09/21 20:20, 32F
推
09/21 20:21, , 33F
09/21 20:21, 33F
→
09/21 20:21, , 34F
09/21 20:21, 34F
→
09/21 20:21, , 35F
09/21 20:21, 35F
→
09/21 20:21, , 36F
09/21 20:21, 36F
→
09/21 20:22, , 37F
09/21 20:22, 37F
→
09/21 20:22, , 38F
09/21 20:22, 38F
還有 210 則推文
還有 10 段內文
推
09/22 16:09, , 249F
09/22 16:09, 249F
推
09/22 16:43, , 250F
09/22 16:43, 250F
→
09/22 16:49, , 251F
09/22 16:49, 251F
推
09/22 17:32, , 252F
09/22 17:32, 252F
→
09/22 17:32, , 253F
09/22 17:32, 253F
→
09/22 17:32, , 254F
09/22 17:32, 254F
推
09/22 18:53, , 255F
09/22 18:53, 255F
→
09/22 18:54, , 256F
09/22 18:54, 256F
→
09/22 18:55, , 257F
09/22 18:55, 257F
→
09/22 18:55, , 258F
09/22 18:55, 258F
→
09/22 18:55, , 259F
09/22 18:55, 259F
→
09/22 19:05, , 260F
09/22 19:05, 260F
噓
09/22 21:11, , 261F
09/22 21:11, 261F
→
09/23 01:18, , 262F
09/23 01:18, 262F
→
09/23 01:18, , 263F
09/23 01:18, 263F
噓
09/23 03:19, , 264F
09/23 03:19, 264F
→
09/23 03:19, , 265F
09/23 03:19, 265F
→
09/23 03:19, , 266F
09/23 03:19, 266F
→
09/23 03:19, , 267F
09/23 03:19, 267F
推
09/23 08:57, , 268F
09/23 08:57, 268F
→
09/23 08:58, , 269F
09/23 08:58, 269F
→
09/23 08:59, , 270F
09/23 08:59, 270F
→
09/23 08:59, , 271F
09/23 08:59, 271F
→
09/23 08:59, , 272F
09/23 08:59, 272F
→
09/23 09:00, , 273F
09/23 09:00, 273F
→
09/23 09:01, , 274F
09/23 09:01, 274F
推
09/23 11:22, , 275F
09/23 11:22, 275F
→
09/23 11:24, , 276F
09/23 11:24, 276F
→
09/23 11:24, , 277F
09/23 11:24, 277F
→
09/23 11:25, , 278F
09/23 11:25, 278F
→
09/23 11:58, , 279F
09/23 11:58, 279F
→
09/23 13:46, , 280F
09/23 13:46, 280F
→
09/23 13:47, , 281F
09/23 13:47, 281F
→
09/23 13:47, , 282F
09/23 13:47, 282F
→
09/23 13:49, , 283F
09/23 13:49, 283F
推
09/23 13:53, , 284F
09/23 13:53, 284F
→
09/23 14:38, , 285F
09/23 14:38, 285F
推
09/23 14:39, , 286F
09/23 14:39, 286F
→
09/23 14:40, , 287F
09/23 14:40, 287F
噓
09/23 20:43, , 288F
09/23 20:43, 288F
討論串 (同標題文章)