[求助] 婚前(?)買房
雖然說根本還沒提親或是正式進入流程,講婚前不知道恰不恰當...
不過目前跟男友是討論大概兩年後會結婚,居住地是高雄
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前情提要1:
男友彰化人26y/o,我高雄人26y/o,目前都在高雄工作,也預計婚後會住高雄
男友家境不錯,爸媽都公務員,無負債,家中一弟一妹仍在唸書
我家應該比他家再好一點點,無負債,我跟哥哥都在工作了
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前情提要2:
之前在跟男友聊婚後要住哪的問題時,本來都想說就先住公司宿舍也沒差
反正便宜又大碗
不過前兩天我媽突然很開心的跟我說他跟我爸去看了一間新的大樓
在我家附近,總金額一千五百萬左右
因為哥哥已經有買好房子了,當時爸媽也有幫忙出一些
我媽就說他們可以幫忙出頭期五百萬,後面的給我自己揹,這樣大概一個月五萬
目前我的薪水的話勒緊褲帶是還可以付得起
爸媽也會多少幫忙(哥哥賺的比我多,是真的不會計較,也說可以幫忙)
房子就會直接用我的名字下去買
爸媽不會過來住,他們在自己的窩住得很舒適
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問題:
因為房子是買在我家附近,又是用我的名字,這樣會讓男生或是男生家人有不舒服的感覺\
嗎?
1. 如果買了,婚後勢必生活費他會多出一些。
他的薪水加上我付貸款剩下的錢是一定夠我們生活的。
2. 雖然是我揹貸款,不過房子是我的名字。而且如果現在就買,應該算婚前財產。
3. 婚前買,這樣他就對於房子的所在地(離我家超級近)沒有選擇的權利。
加上買了就勢必會住在那邊。房子地點很好,捷運、商圈、學區都很近又不錯。
4. 目前我還沒有跟我男友討論這件事情,講了大概他們家也會加入討論地點
不過目前連提親都還沒(不過我們都跟彼此的爸媽很熟,也交往四年多了)
依我媽的個性一定會說:"我就是很喜歡這間房子!我想要買"這樣
另外我的工作大概也不允許我到處去看房子...沒時間Q_Q
他們去看得那間是真的還不錯,採光好,周遭環境好。
大家會怎麼想呢....? 請給小妹一些意見~
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