[討論] 如果你是瑤婷?該怎麼辦?
看板the_L_word作者shingou (瑤婷戀 (迷迷報應中))時間10年前 (2014/06/14 10:49)推噓68(68推 0噓 185→)留言253則, 40人參與討論串1/4 (看更多)
方思瑤以完美之身墜入不見天明之日
江曉婷以被溺愛之魂墮入異性之婚
一個月以來大家的討論很多元,也有好幾篇的主題探討到:
「如果妳是方思瑤,會讓愛嗎?」
「如果妳是江曉婷,會怎麼辦?」
不過,趁著周末沒瑤婷沒購物台,想開個討論問問大家,
請大家要用「自己」來模擬,不是用劇中人物設定喔!
「如果妳是江曉婷,妳會希望方思瑤就這樣讓愛、退出嗎?」
「如果妳是方思瑤,妳會真的希望江曉婷就此與孫建廷共度一生嗎?」
既然問了,我先說說我的想法。
如果我是曉婷,我會先質問她想讓愛、退出的真實原因,這邊真的跟曉
婷劇中反應一樣,但不管怎樣,我都不會希望思瑤就此後退。當年我也
有段這樣相差15歲的感情,當時告白之後對方沒有要和我交往,我就一
直逼宮。
其實在愛裡,誰不自私?如果我是曉婷,我會用盡全身力氣跟思瑤溝通,
找出兩人應該共同解決的問題。既然衝突發生了,熱戀確定無用,那麼
不做溝通就自己決定轉身是我無法接受的。
要站在對方立場思考是痛苦的,但在衝突中,彼此都不得不這麼做,甚
至要抦棄過去對彼此的認識,才能有機會反轉兩人已經漸漸變質的感情。
如果妳是曉婷,思瑤要走,妳能鬆開她的手嗎?
如果我是思瑤,我不會讓曉婷落入她人之手。雖然我沒有失明過,真的
也很難想像有一天再也看不到世界的害怕,我們都是。但我不希望我因
此變得不幸福,尤其在我知道我的曉婷得一輩子過著「無心」的生活。
沒有真磨合過,沒有嘗試過,怎能放棄?雖然思瑤已經先界定出未來的
瑤婷,我卻覺得那都只是「事先推論」,身為一個不見棺材不掉淚的人,
我沒去努力過,我沒給自己跟曉婷機會,我將來一定會後悔!
如果妳是思瑤,妳真的願意妳的女人成為別人的妻子?
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《世間情》─【瑤婷戀】
-- 方思瑤,妳知道我有多愛妳嗎?
-- 江曉婷,妳知道嗎?我也一樣很愛妳
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