[心情] 是我玻璃心嗎?該怎麼溝通
看板marriage作者sparrowhawk (..........)時間7年前 (2017/04/25 00:36)推噓186(196推 10噓 326→)留言532則, 182人參與討論串1/8 (看更多)
我今年37歲 懷孕也是高齡產婦
之前日夜顛倒的工作讓我子宮生很多病
非常不易受孕
離職在家調養快9個月
上週突然發現有了
我馬上臨時性的工作辭掉
(因為之前在日夜顛倒的工作時小產過,雖然現在只是打工還是辭了)
原本預定出遊計畫通通取消
偶爾還有小出血情形
休息可改善
這些事情老公都知道
但今天就是為了回婆家的事情爭吵
(之前是一個月回去一次)
婆家在南部開車來回要8-9個小時的車程
婆家是透天
如果我回去要坐那麼久的車和爬三樓樓梯
這些我就覺得不行了
還有回去之後
要是我一個媳婦待3樓休息
讓婆婆一個人煮全家吃
我臉皮再厚也辦不到啊啊啊啊
公婆人非常好,什麼事都拿起來做
反而是老公被寵壞的感覺(ー ー;)
但回去畢竟有長輩在
我怎可能想休息就休息
所以和老公商量前三個月我先不要回去
沒想到老公完全不諒解
說我故意找藉口不回去
而且現在明明可以動可以爬樓梯時不回去
以後肚子大了更不回去
還說爬樓梯累了可以休息一下啊,好了再爬
反正目前租房的地方也有10階樓梯
家裏可以,為什麼在婆家不行?
(我回說那我何必把自己搞到這種處境?)
老公死咬著我就是整個孕期不想回婆家而不爽我
(我明明就講穩定後就可以回婆家)
死咬我現在明明可以動還不回去
我真的氣到覺得自己嫁錯人了
該怎麼跟他溝通?
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