[心情] 夫妻對於用錢的觀念
是否同意記者抄文:NO
二寶生下來也好幾個月了,現在保母費1個月總共要4萬6(老大日託,老二全日託)
加上房租1萬,也就是我固定支出每個月是5萬6
我爸媽孝親費都不收,反而是要我存起來等之後買房子用
我目前的工作薪水不錯,1個月有10萬,但是要值班
太太是公務員,1個月薪水是3萬8
但上述的5萬6全部都是我在負擔
太太只負責孩子的雜費和家中的飲食支出
其中太太每個月還要給岳母孝親費5千
(岳母現任國中教師,一個月5-6萬,賺得比我太太還多)
但岳母是個虔誠的佛教徒,據她表示這5千她全部都拿出去捐獻
所以太太一個月也是所剩不多
最近爸媽幫我看了一間房子,他們幫我付了部分的頭款
含爸媽借的(400萬)和銀行貸款(800萬),我總共要背1200萬的債務
因為工作穩定和薪水不錯,我自然有信心還完才會答應
但和爸媽借的這400萬想快點還給他們,畢竟這是他們的養老金
所以,我希望太太請育嬰假,一方面可以緩解經濟壓力,另外可以陪孩子成長
畢竟,我每天看孩子都在睡眼矇矓中被吵醒,送到保母家,真的很不捨
但太太卻一直認為請育嬰假後,她沒收入,用錢都要看我臉色
另外她的工作其實還蠻清鬆的,但若是兩個小孩都自己帶,她覺得很累
我們兩人已經為了要不要請育嬰假和岳母的用錢方式吵架好幾次了
似乎兩人對未來的看法差異愈來愈大,往後的路也不知道該如何走下去了
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