[閒聊] 婆婆無限迴圈如何回應或漠視
是否同意記者抄文:YES
每次回婆家最痛苦的地方莫過於對婆婆的話不認同又無法有智慧的告訴他我不想聽這些,
因為她總是在這幾年來老講這些話,老實說 很煩,連我娘家媽2年遇見婆婆一次,都說婆
婆好像是壞掉的撥放機一直repeat....他老是講這些:
1.二伯嬰兒期8個月大就會講小姐I love you、1歲會買東西,二伯小時簡直神童等近40年
的往事;二伯的孩子有多棒嬰兒期、1歲、2歲...7歲怎麼樣等。
2.必定告知大家她身體很差,晚上睡不著或腳很痛(開刀前喊痛開刀後也喊痛,而我看到
的是她整天看電視下午打盹,沒看過她運動)。有時又會提到20年前差點死掉的事;而我
自己娘家父母身體微恙,他們怕我們擔憂都絕口不提,都是我們詢問或觀察得知。相對於
婆家的言語,讓我很不適應。
3.先生與二伯唸同所學校時婆婆想買房讓他們住,因兄弟不同意作罷,現在房價飆漲沒買
到房責怪是兒子們的錯;想買金飾問大伯意見結果大伯說折現,害她很喜歡沒買到(以上
是15年前往事)。
4.隔壁鄰居誰誰誰很壞心對媳婦很差,誰的兒子孝親給多少,誰買了幾間房,誰生幾個,
報紙說好多人生女的都拿掉。
5.以前他們年代有多麼的辛苦,她沒坐月子隔天就得下床幹活、生了幾個拿掉幾個後綁起
來、買房都沒貸款、公公留債務給他們,看到我們車廂塞滿小孩物品必說以前她揹著一個
牽一個老公還不幫買車票讓她自己回娘家,那像我們怎麼樣怎麼樣。
6.大媳婦怎麼樣二媳婦怎麼樣,另外我都不會叫他(叫了她也沒反應)
其他還有很多,先生及公公沒回應都是做自己的事,他們的心態是婆婆再活也沒幾年凡事
讓著她,我是覺得國定假日過年過節舟車勞頓到貴寶地聽這些很痛苦,雖然都知道她講這
些話的背後意涵。
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