[心情] 被要求只是做樣子,到底該怎麼樣子?
婚前就知道婆婆的心目中的好媳婦人選,我配不上…
永遠忘不掉,婚前第一次和老公(那時男朋友)全家人出外用餐,婆婆瞄菜單,頭也不抬
的問老公說"她要吃什麼?"…明明我就是坐在老公旁邊,婆婆也知道我的名字~~
那種難堪與不被重視的感覺,從婚前一直延續到婚後 (結婚4年了)
先生並不是豬隊友~~但是他是很孝順也很傳統的孩子…(獨子)
婆婆並不是壞人~~但是我們就是沒有婆媳的好緣份…(所以只有我一個媳婦)
先前我也有來版上問,回到婆家喊人的時候,婆婆不回應,該如何自處?
大家都是告訴我,禮貌上還是要叫人,做做樣子不會落人口舌,我也是照辦了!
小姑的先生回到婆家,婆婆熱誠款待,把他當客人,又是招呼又是關心
生怕冷落了小姑的先生。
我們每個禮拜週末固定回婆家,她把我當空氣,叫大家來吃飯吃水果,就是不會叫我~
我想和先生溝通,既然這樣子,我是不是不用每個週末回婆家,也算是讓我一個人安靜
放空一下。婆婆沒有看到我,應該也樂的輕鬆!!!
先生告訴我~~我們搬出來住,已經是他最大的盡力! 只要求我每個禮拜做做樣子而已
我都不願意??
結婚四年,每個禮拜都回婆家,從未間斷,我只要有回去吃飯,都一定洗全家人的碗
所以為了做樣子,自己要繼續忍受當空氣的感覺…
為了要符合先生孝順的樣子,自己就算被不喜歡,還是要繼續搬熱臉貼冷屁股
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