Re: [討拍] 結束了,不能哭
※ 引述《cynthia1cat (籬落清秋)》之銘言:
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這是代溝問題。
大姑65年次,跟我一樣是上個世代的舊時代老人,受的是統編本教育,教育思想是
儒家,所謂倫常道德,長幼有序,重視個人義務而輕權利。
原po81年次,大陸說的90後。受的是九年一貫教育,中心思想是存在主義,存在
先於本質,人的存在優先於任何道德和信仰,人有選擇的自由。以個人為本,
重視個人權利。
兩人相差16年時空的思想,被放在同一個家庭裡。又沒有血緣關係潤滑,一旦發生
利益衝突,雙方根本沒有對話的共識。原po選擇離婚,這也是九年一貫的教育成果。
對於身為長輩的大姑,使喚弟弟本來就是理所當然的。因為她受的教育就是這樣,
以長為尊,弟弟和弟媳,不能反對她的意見。
不過90後的人才不吃妳這套,他人即地獄,這句話說的真好。
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