[討拍] 開始感受到壓力了
其實我公公婆婆對我很好,我老公因為不愛講話又很沒耐性
我公公婆婆反而比較喜歡找我說話,每次回婆家也是我陪兩老看電視
話說最近學校評鑑,加上出國開研討會
這半年來又忙升等,還有連續幾個週末上課
好不容易母親節擠出一天,禮拜六半夜到婆家,
週日陪他們吃飯慶祝母親節
閒聊時我說最近很忙比較沒空回來
我婆婆說了句 ,“我看別人當老師都很輕鬆,怎麼你這麼忙?”
雖然我口頭上說現在這幾年時代不同
老師變得很忙
但是聽到這些話著實不開心
我們學校是私立醫大,升等評鑑還有學校雜務一堆
長期壓力很大時聽到這句話真的頗不舒服
後來我公公又問我,什麼時候要生小孩?
說到這我更滿肚子不開心了
為了生小孩我抓著老公一起去檢查
做了一堆不舒服的檢查後,醫生說老公精子活動力不夠
叫他戒煙
我老公叫他戒煙比登天還難,去看戒煙門診拿了藥也不好好吃
有很認真地問他是不是不想生小孩? 如果不想生我們就不要努力了
他又說他想生,可是搞到後來好像都我一個人壓力大
有跟我公公說是老公的問題
,他們是沒再說什麼,只是不開心的事又添一樁
唉......
這個週末發生的事我老公叫我別放在心上,
他說我公婆因為跟我比較有話聊,所以才問我
不是有意的,只是壓力大時被問真的很難釋懷啊!
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其實因為我婆婆是很容易擔心的人,我老公的工作就已經讓她很煩心
我根本就不敢提升等沒過就要被踢走的事
我娘家爸媽平常聽我工作上的事就已經天天求神拜佛了
我很怕透露給我婆婆知道,她會憂鬱症又發作
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哈哈~我們不是沒有主管罵人,開會時常常被某某長官罵
跟研究生被指導老師刁差不多
學生也不是可以隨便罵的,可能真的時代不同了
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※ 編輯: Jochenklasen (140.128.67.195), 05/12/2015 16:19:15
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