[代PO] 婚前-同住問題
看板marriage作者nunu1102 (.......................)時間9年前 (2015/04/13 18:35)推噓27(30推 3噓 40→)留言73則, 42人參與討論串1/4 (看更多)
A.是否清楚了解代PO文注意事項(Y/N) Y
B.需要代PO文的原因:
2)朋友無PTT帳號,幫忙代發
C.代PO文的內容
朋友暫定預計婚期是 7月,
詳細日子還在等雙方父母回覆。
朋友最近要結婚,
因為是遠距離,
(男方在南部上班,女方在北部上班)
家鄉都在北部,雙方都同縣市,
有考慮女方工作騎驢找馬,
跟男方去南部謀職、住在一起。
尚未找到工作就先暫住原生家庭,
礙於半年後要結婚,
男方那邊表示,
若女方未離職狀態下,
想要女方婚後就住在男方家,
(男方還是在南部工作沒變動),
女方覺得男方若回家鄉再一起回男方家即可,
平常男方並沒有陪伴在身邊,
就先維持女方住原生家庭,
男方長輩很傳統,
希望女方若沒跟男方至南部,
就先婚後住在男方家,
不知道這樣該怎麼解決……
女方怕一離職還未找到工作前,
跟男方去南部,
沒有錢不知道怎麼過,
又不想也不知道怎麼開口跟先生要生活費,
女方沒什麼存款,
因為女方家需要幫忙,
(算滿孝順),
男方已經表明婚後錢財各自獨立,
女方很想婚後直接跟男方相處,
但沒薪水實在有困難之下,
很努力在找了,
也不想婚後還未有薪水造成男方拖油瓶,
(女方尚不知道男方薪資,也不知道男方存款,感覺男方不想說,女方也不知道要怎麼了
解,就都沒過問)
現階段,男方跟女方說,
女方沒有離職就是男方離職回家鄉,
男方回來就一定要跟父母同住,
想問一下版上的各位,
女方未離職,男方又在外縣市,
女方婚後要直接跟公婆住嗎?
女方家人覺得實在不用……
謝謝各位
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