Re: [代PO] 婚前-同住問題
※ 引述《nunu1102 (.......................)》之銘言:
: 現階段,男方跟女方說,
: 女方沒有離職就是男方離職回家鄉,
: 男方回來就一定要跟父母同住,
: 想問一下版上的各位,
: 女方未離職,男方又在外縣市,
: 女方婚後要直接跟公婆住嗎?
: 女方家人覺得實在不用……
: 謝謝各位
人家請問版上各位的事情,就只有「女方未離職,男方又在外縣市,
女方婚後要直接跟公婆住嗎?」這個問題而已,真不知道一堆人在
腦補什麼?什麼跟男方不熟啦,已經懷孕了啦,不要結比較好......
我們又不是當事人?說不定男生跟李敏鎬一樣帥,身高也一樣187cm,
而且只是不知道男生的收入存款,又不是對他一無所知,不然怎麼可能
要結婚?當事人既然要結婚了,婚姻版各位就給祝福就好了,一堆人把
別人套入自己假設的模式,然後就下結論說不要結,這樣真得不太好。
又不知道邊界條件,怎麼會知道最佳解是什麼?
現在回答原po問題,女方婚後要直接跟公婆住嗎?答案是不用,既然
同縣市,老公也可以跟女方一起住在女生父母家裡。當然有人會說男方家
很傳統,那不要緊,傳統有很多種。
請查詢「長住娘家」,「長住娘家」婚俗又稱「不落夫家」。「不落夫家」
是一種很古老的習俗。婦女出嫁三天後即回娘家長住,只有過年過節及農忙時
到夫家住一兩天。只有等到懷孕以後才允許長住夫家。住娘家的時間至少有二三年
,最長達20年以上,一般五到八年。她們每年到夫家不上十次,每次不超過三日。
當然有人會說阿這是福建泉州惠安的傳統習俗,這裡是台灣。說這種話的人
請去查一下台灣的移民,很多都是泉州來的,用長住娘家傳統習俗,是說的
過去的。如果男方扯傳統,那女方也有女方的習慣,這沒有一定的標準。
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