[閒聊] 射後有理就叫負責任?
最近版上默默浮出一些奉子成婚文
當初懵懂無知後,來不及想清楚,日後又有一些家庭問題
女生就真的這麼沒得選擇好怕怕嗎?
男生就真的負起責任好棒棒嗎?
前一陣子,聽到親友奉子成婚的消息
長輩(男方那邊)曾經說過
"先有孩子多好,年輕人有了孩子會更打拼"
"完全不逃避責任,一定是好爸爸"
"阿公馬上可以抱孫好羨慕"
聽到白眼都想翻到八仙樂園去了
好像婚前把女生肚子搞大是一件男生很MAN的事情
只有不負責任的男人才會未避孕就亂七八糟射好嗎
(有完善避孕但意外中獎者不算)
肚子搞大應該是男方爸媽要牽著蠢兒子去女方家致歉的事情
卻變成去提親,男方家人喜孜孜哪招
女生第一時間愚蠢沒有保護好自己後有了小孩
第二時間又沒想清楚,連哄帶騙或是自己害怕就上了花轎
就會衍生一大堆當初年輕不懂事嫁錯人文
其實肚子在自己身上,決定權也在自己身上
不要委委屈屈,好像是男生肯結婚就有了避風港一樣
要結婚,要金孫,也該是男方表達足夠歉意與誠意時才風光結婚
不要一開始就輸一半
女人請自立
珍惜自己
奉子成婚未必不好,但請冷靜,三思而後行
先把男方看透徹點再說
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對!我覺得女生可以生小孩是了不起的事情
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閒聊重點在"我認為男生射後有理不等於負責任"
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※ 編輯: loveducky (42.66.169.137), 03/29/2015 10:52:26
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※ 編輯: loveducky (42.66.169.137), 03/29/2015 10:54:34
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我也贊同女生未婚懷孕會對女方家人造成困擾需要向自己父母致歉
但如果是我"假若我兒子讓別人家女兒懷孕,身為男方媽媽我會感到非常抱歉"
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