[討論] 關於小孩誰帶這件事情
看板marriage作者makeweight (makeweight)時間10年前 (2013/11/14 10:45)推噓26(43推 17噓 148→)留言208則, 58人參與討論串1/5 (看更多)
大家好
我是新手爸爸,最近遇到一個小問題想請問一下各位媽媽
我們是非常一般的小家庭,我姐姐之前的小孩給我媽帶
最近兩歲帶回去台中,緊接著我自己的小孩也跟著來到
我姊建議給我媽帶,她認為很不錯
老婆想要後面給托嬰中心帶,她認為養小孩本來就是花費會很重
但不管怎麼樣還是要帶自己的小孩
盡量去同理她想法的話應該是
如果今天不是因為我媽要帶,我們也是要自己帶小孩
自己帶小孩,這本來就是天經地義的事情,花費會很重本來就是正常
所以給我媽帶這件事情她不太考慮
但就我的想法來說
給我媽帶雖然教養上不一定是我們所喜歡的,但總比托嬰中心好
而且費用上比較省,畢竟托嬰中心的錢是不得不給
如果給媽媽帶,偶爾偷忙也不會怎麼樣
甚至可能可以開開小差圖個輕鬆
我覺得我的想法也對,我老婆的想法也沒錯,遇到這樣的問題應該要怎麼樣比較好
結婚前每個個體都是一意孤行,結婚後兩個人個性很深層的磨合,真的蠻有趣的
老婆的倔強個性雖然跟我希望的不一樣,但是覺得很可愛,這也就是她
但對我來說,給我媽帶好處多過於壞處,且現實面可能可以存點錢
我也想過先給托嬰中心,後面看狀況再決定要不要給我媽帶
但是這樣感覺很沒意義
我跟我老婆溝通還OK,彼此也知道對方想法,但兩者想法沒有交集點
不知道關於這樣的狀況,各位是否也有遇到類似的問題,如果是你們會如何處理
謝謝大家!
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