[心情] 沒有經濟自主的婚姻(文長)
朋友沒有PTT帳號幫po
我是單親家庭長大,家裡不是很富裕
婆家家庭經濟狀況還不錯,有自己的家族事業
我本來也是有在工作,但因為生小孩就離職了
一方面是婆婆希望我可以認真帶小孩,
一方面我身體本來就比較不好,我的工作經常需要加班,想想就還是離職
所以現在目前經濟來源都是靠老公
前陣子產後6週回診,醫生說我體質比較虛
建議我這時候打子宮頸癌疫苗,因為產後子宮因生產較虛弱
現在疫苗防止癌症的效果已經非常好了,
醫生推薦的一家抗體濃度高有到九成的防護效果的疫苗,
聽完我就覺得非打不可
不過打這個要一萬,我現在身上也沒這麼多現金
回家跟老公討論說我想打子宮頸癌疫苗
老公本來說好要拿錢給我,結果婆婆聽到我們在討論
就衝進我們房裡說我要拿錢幹嘛
跟她解釋完之後她說她也沒打疫苗都不會得子宮頸癌
不准我花錢去打!!!!
說我沒有工作,家事也沒在做,一直花老公的錢
都不會想要省錢,還說我是拜金女
老公為了緩和我們的氣氛,就說這個疫苗好像也不是很需要
然後說再考慮看看啦,先不要打好了
然後我又只能吞下去,嫁進來之前朋友都說你婆家有錢喔
未來不愁吃穿了,沒想到我現在連打個保護健康的疫苗都沒辦法
婆婆說她沒打疫苗也都不會得到,但那是他幸運!
子宮頸癌已經是婦女前幾大癌症死因,她不怕死但我很怕!!!
嫁到這種家庭一定是我上輩子欠他們的
女人還是要工作,不然拿別人的錢永遠抬不起頭
好像什麼都是我靠他們,奉勸大家結婚前自己還是要有點私房錢
不然自己急用也沒有人可以靠
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