Re: [閒聊] 超挺老婆的老公
原文省略
不清楚原PO是否有小孩了
但是我在小孩出生前,我那一陣子幾乎都在瘋狂打掃家裡
(透天,我只能分批分樓清理)
我們房間的大至被單,小至小小孩的衣服不管新舊,我全部都重新洗一次
窗簾那些,我也清理了一次,因為我們家是舊式的洗衣機,又只有9KG還10KG的容量
所以有時候塞太多,我就用最大水量去下洗
這是新手媽媽的產前焦慮,就像動物在產前,也會努力把自己的窩做到最完美
以迎接新生命一樣
真的那麼在乎水錢,就乾脆花一次的裝置費,把該裝的水龍頭省水器弄一弄
馬桶也有分段器可以安裝,洗衣機除非是用滾筒的,不然直立式似乎也省不到哪?!
全部都安裝好到位,該做的都做了,水錢還是依然貴到嚇死人
到時大家在商量討論如何節約用水時,會不會比今天的檢討大會更不傷人?!
我老公說可以用錢解決的事情都是小事,誰能保證自己以後哪天不會麻煩到別人!?
我家在還沒裝電熱水器的時段節電器時,每次帳單收到,心都好痛
裝了之後,雖然常常還是3~4張小朋友,但是比以前好太多
那時我小姑一家也常來我家小住,冷氣、洗衣機也是照常用
再加上她兩個小孩都是過敏兒,所以住我家時當天就要把客房內全部的小棉被、枕頭套
、被單,能想到接觸皮膚、呼吸道的通通洗一遍,這個我也都不在乎,該用就用
總比小孩痛苦,大人心裡難受好
後來我懷孕時,跟我婆婆做法上有一些不愉快的地方,我也都請小姑幫我跟婆婆開導
喝飲料、吃東西 之類老人家都能唸的都拿出來唸...(那陣子我都快起笑了)
後來小姑也把她們那時幫買小孩的嬰兒床、衣服、餐椅......數不清的東西轉讓給我們
讓我們省下不少養兒費,雖然這些東西或許可以從別人那邊陸續接收
但是絕非一次解決,替我省下不少時間跟人情
有時候不在乎一些小事,別人更能在其他地方回報你,"出來跑的總有一天要還的!!"
看了後來的推文,小叔感覺上個性還蠻幼稚的,但是有時候不計較才能讓人覺得你們
肚量大、成熟穩重
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1.不是每個人都有能力搬出去住,牽扯到家家有本難念經
所以搬家大絕就不在我的務實建議內,如果可以原PO就不會上網PO水電經拉~
2.每個人對乾淨跟用水的主觀不同,不好說是不是小嬸浪費水的問題
我可以1個禮拜洗一次衣服(我拉~小孩衣服不同),但是我跟我老公愛泡澡(熱愛溫泉)
衣服我堅持淺深色分開洗,襪子跟外褲要另外洗
3.以前工作上的關係,被挖過無數坑洞後,深深體認如果希望別人不指責自己
自己最起碼要先把對事情的責任降到最低,我已經做到我能力範圍內可達到的
事情發生後,即使難免被牽拖,但是主責任絕對不在我(攤手~)
原PO主動把一些省水的裝置先買好、裝好,日後省下的不也是自己的錢?!
主動都做好了,小叔要沒臉沒皮的說大哥大嫂愛計較,他敢講也沒人相信吧?
再來要提出小叔多分擔水費,更可以理直氣壯不是嗎?!
4.吵也吵過了,事情還是要解決阿~~不然大家都不要繳錢,讓水公司停水?!
不然小叔放大絕直接拒繳,吃虧的還是原PO,繳1千總比繳2~3千更好吧~
※ 編輯: demdem 來自: 123.195.133.73 (06/14 20:19)
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