[閒聊] 朋友很自私?還是我的問題?
我常覺得我常竭盡己力幫助朋友
很少說不
不過有些女生朋友 讓我感覺他們非常自私
到底是他們真的很自私
還是因為是我 拿自己的尺來測量別人 才會心理不平衡
我覺得我已經是凡事很少求別人 幾乎百分之90的事都自己完成
但是偶爾真的需要某些朋友的幫助時 他們卻又可以很輕易的跟你說不
我要求一個外文系的朋友借我一些會話的書
並請她指導我"每個禮拜一個小時"
沒有很過分吧?
她竟然說 很累 沒有時間 書她要用
也許是真的要用書吧 但是一個小時真的很過分嗎
一個禮拜上廁所都不只一小時吧
還有其他諸如此類的事 對她來說易如反掌的事 她都可以拒絕我
有時候覺得很心寒
也會漸漸變的對別人的事 不關心
也變的不會主動要幫普通朋友做什麼
但不包括扶老太太過馬路 這我還是會做
只是心漸漸變的冷了
是我 有問題嗎?
是我覺得朋友間應該秉持互惠的原則 這錯了?
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