Re: [討論] 會覺得生小孩算自私的行為嗎?
老實說 我會覺得在現在這個時代,願意生小孩是一種很無私的行為
理論上來說,新的人類誕生才會支持國家的永續發展
有人開始繳稅,開始消費,開始支援部分的社會運作
對於父母來說,老實說我完全不懂現在生小孩的具體好處是什麼
小孩首先,像之前版友提到,馬上會壓縮你的時間跟金錢,
可愛只是一陣子,快樂也是短暫,比較多的還是責任
等他/她長成一個思考成熟的人(小學中高年級),會慢慢變成另外一個"人",
而不是"你/妳"的"孩子"
這個另外的人也會有正面反面的人格特質出現,自我,秘密,互惠,利己,利他...之類
而漸漸會沒那麼"親"也是因那個孩子脫離了從屬特質
以前的人生孩子多的時代,是因為沒有甚麼企業概念,家庭就是一個小企業,
年紀越大越權威,生孩子多就等於在為家庭多找員工可以用,anyway他們會聽父母的
然後貢獻.....現在這個點沒了,對父母其實具體的好處驟減
現在這個世代,還有一個點會讓父母生孩子有某個好處:社會認同,讓人覺得這樣比較正常
但也會慢慢遞減
結論,會生小孩對社會真的比較無私,順便代入,對孕婦的禮遇是合理的,
陰為他們生的孩子以後要支持這個越來越少人貢獻的社會系統,
只是我們還沒有體認到這一點.
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