[難過] 婚事告吹了消失
最近跟男友開始準備婚事
男友背景:在化工廠工作,博班畢業,基督徒,家住高雄。35歲
我的背景:等待國營放榜,碩班畢業,家中拜拜,家住宜蘭。28歲
一開始談要結婚蠻順利的,男友製作結婚要準備的表格。我把表格拿給我爸爸看,爸爸覺得聘金原本的6萬給太少,而加至26萬(這聘金最後會給我)。男友無法接受,覺得太負擔,要求降價,男友甚至提出不舉辦訂婚,只有在教會舉辦結婚。我爸爸火大,非常生氣認為男方太不尊重女方習俗,覺得26萬數目不大,要也是給我女兒。爸爸認為男方太斤斤計較,如果沒有訂婚只有結婚爸爸要跟我脫離關係。
男友覺得我爸爸太勢利刻薄,用聘金來衡量是不是真誠,完全不想付聘金,也不想訂婚。
我夾在家人跟男友兩方好掙扎,最後婚事告吹了
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